Is he your first boyfriend?

posted 3 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: What number is your SO/ FI/ DH?
    First boyfriend : (74 votes)
    28 %
    Second boyfriend : (34 votes)
    13 %
    Third boyfriend : (40 votes)
    15 %
    Fourth boyfriend : (33 votes)
    12 %
    Fifth + boyfriend : (76 votes)
    29 %
    Other, describe below : (8 votes)
    3 %
  • Post # 3
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    965 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: January 2014

    @futurejhart:  I don’t consider him my first BF as I had many before, but I do consider him my first serious, mature, functional relationship.

    Most of my relationships before him were casual, disfunctional, or in high school.

    Post # 4
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    3420 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: July 2015

    @futurejhart:  SO is my first super serious relationship, but that is because if I feel that the person I’m dating isn’t right for me I don’t pursue it any longer. Why waste time? I could have dated my other boyfriends longer, but knowing it wasn’t going to go anywhere just ecouraged me to end it.

    I dont think there is anything wrong with marrying your first love, but make sure you date for a while and live with the person first before making any serious decisions. Living with somone will teach you a lot!

    Post # 5
    Member
    682 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2014

    @futurejhart:  We have been together since we were 15 so that is a yes! 

    Post # 6
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    3756 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: April 2014

    I’ve dated a lot and had quite a few “boyfriends” in like high school where boyfriend didn’t actually mean much of anything to me. But he’s only my second long term relationship. 🙂

    Post # 7
    Member
    721 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: January 2004

    FI is my first long term/serious. I did date 3 other guys before him for a short time. 

    Post # 8
    Member
    1646 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: October 2014

    We’ve been dating since we were 15, so yup! First boyfriend, first kiss, first everything!

    Post # 9
    Member
    1197 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: August 2014

    I’m his first girl, and he’s my third long-term relationship!

    Post # 10
    Member
    649 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: May 2012

    @futurejhart:  I did! I was like you–dated some men casually but my DH was my first real boyfriend. 

    Post # 11
    Member
    6644 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: June 2011

    Nope, considering we met when I was 34.  I had many many boyfriends before met my DH

    Post # 12
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    4513 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    Well we started dating at 15 and although I had boyfriends before him, do they really count? Do boyfriends at age 13 count? You basically only see each other at school and chat on the phone, so I don’t really think so. I guess depending on how you look at it the answer could be yes or no. I say yes, my DH was my first boyfriend.

    Post # 13
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    6073 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: August 2012

    He’s my 4th boyfriend.  I was 36 when we got married.

    I am his 3rd girlfriend.  He was 34 when we married.

    We’ve both dated others, I’m counting BF/GF status relationships.

    Post # 14
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    3265 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: February 2014

    Hmm, not sure how to answer. I dated quite a bit of guys and had a handful of boyfriends but FI is my second really serious relationship.

    Post # 15
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    1425 posts
    Bumble bee

    While FI was not my first love, he will be my last. 🙂

    Post # 16
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    7098 posts
    Busy Beekeeper
    • Wedding: August 2012

    Fourth serious long term relationship. I’m not including anything from high school or below because I don’t really think those count, lol.

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