Post # 1
I just realised that my SO (soon to be FI) is my first proper boyfriend! I have been on other dates, seen men casually etc, but he is the only serious boyfriend I’ve ever had. Is this strange?
How many others out there will be marrying their first love?
Post # 3
@futurejhart: I don’t consider him my first BF as I had many before, but I do consider him my first serious, mature, functional relationship.
Most of my relationships before him were casual, disfunctional, or in high school.
Post # 4
@futurejhart: SO is my first super serious relationship, but that is because if I feel that the person I’m dating isn’t right for me I don’t pursue it any longer. Why waste time? I could have dated my other boyfriends longer, but knowing it wasn’t going to go anywhere just ecouraged me to end it.
I dont think there is anything wrong with marrying your first love, but make sure you date for a while and live with the person first before making any serious decisions. Living with somone will teach you a lot!
Post # 5
@futurejhart: We have been together since we were 15 so that is a yes!
Post # 6
I’ve dated a lot and had quite a few “boyfriends” in like high school where boyfriend didn’t actually mean much of anything to me. But he’s only my second long term relationship. 🙂
Post # 7
FI is my first long term/serious. I did date 3 other guys before him for a short time.
Post # 8
We’ve been dating since we were 15, so yup! First boyfriend, first kiss, first everything!
Post # 9
I’m his first girl, and he’s my third long-term relationship!
Post # 10
@futurejhart: I did! I was like you–dated some men casually but my DH was my first real boyfriend.
Post # 11
Nope, considering we met when I was 34. I had many many boyfriends before met my DH
Post # 12
Well we started dating at 15 and although I had boyfriends before him, do they really count? Do boyfriends at age 13 count? You basically only see each other at school and chat on the phone, so I don’t really think so. I guess depending on how you look at it the answer could be yes or no. I say yes, my DH was my first boyfriend.
Post # 13
He’s my 4th boyfriend. I was 36 when we got married.
I am his 3rd girlfriend. He was 34 when we married.
We’ve both dated others, I’m counting BF/GF status relationships.
Post # 14
Hmm, not sure how to answer. I dated quite a bit of guys and had a handful of boyfriends but FI is my second really serious relationship.
Post # 15
While FI was not my first love, he will be my last. 🙂
Post # 16
Fourth serious long term relationship. I’m not including anything from high school or below because I don’t really think those count, lol.