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posted 3 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: Is he your "type"?
    He certainly is, down to his shoes. : (51 votes)
    31 %
    Sort of. He's similar, but not exactly my type. : (62 votes)
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    Nope. He's as far away from my type as possible. : (36 votes)
    22 %
    I fortunately don't have a type. : (17 votes)
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    chemchopity    10/04/2008   Dayton

    i met my husband by stepping completely away from my usual type of man. initially i thought he was too cute, too young and too wild because he is adorable, only 1 year older and a rock star. i surprised myself by falling in love with him and finding out that while he wasn't my type, he was perfect for me.

    anyone else? 

     
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    rnc620    June 20, 2009   STL

    My FI really didn't seem my type, both physically and personality wise.  He is short (5'8) has blond hair and fare skin.. I usually go for tall and dark.

    Personality wise; he is loud and loves to be the life of the party.  When we first met he just kept asking me out, and I thought this guy is such a player and so in my face.  I wasn't into it at all. Oh, andworst of all... he smoked.  Which was a huge no-no. 

    Once I got to know him though I realized he really was my type.  He quit smoking, and got his partying under control, which allowed me to see who he really was.  He gets really loud when he drinks and that was the only side I was seeing of him. H's actually a serious, well read, amazing man... he was just hiding it from me at first.

    I still sometimes wish I could sprinkle some water on him and he'd grow a few more inches.. haha, but I can deal with it.

     
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    Erindesmar    October 17, 2009   Boston, MA

    My FI is totally my type. Preppy but athletic (and very much a boy...doesn't care about clothes, etc.) Physically he is my type too - olive skin town, fit but not too muscular. 

    He is my type intellectually insofar as he is interested in politics, current events, pop culture (sort of), and is a physician so has plenty of smarts.  But he is really into science and I can't stand the sight of blood and don't understand chemistry. 

    He has my sense of humor and likes to be active and be outside like me.  We both have a little bit of "homebody" in us, too.  Love him!

     

     
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    bunny    July 3, 2009  

    I haven't dated around a lot, but as far as looks, my type has dark hair and my FI is blond.

    There's the whole smoker thing, too. :P

    But there's so much about him that's perfect for me -- it just wasn't obvious from looking at him!Is he your type? :  wedding the one love relationships Icon Wink

     
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    Amanda_V    Oct. 3rd, 2009   Kentucky

    I always fell for the guys that had dark, thick hair, and dark eyes, with a sun tan (from working outside) Not skinny skinny, but not overweight (though I never had a problem with overweight people, I'm not exactly thin myself) I liked the country guys because some of them I found to be more down to earth.

    When I first met FI, I dreaded seeing him pull up to my place of work. He liked the loud thumping music, he was in the middle of his senior year in highschool; late 2005. I had been graduated from high school for over a year and a half, so I was "more mature". (Of course, you know that girls tend to mature faster than guys; lol) He was loud.

    FI is a country boy, but as far as physically. He's a little on the heavy side, fair skinned, light hair (that's thinning on top), and green eyes. I love the eyes, I could just get lost looking into them. And his weight, never bothered me. I guess I fell for him, because he wasn't perfect. The way I see it, there's more for me to love. (And he keeps me warm when its cold)

     

    And I always joked with my family saying that I was going to marry an Irish redneck.  They said good luck on that one. And guess what, not only is FI a "country boy", but his family originated from Ireland. LOL!

     
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    Mrs. DG    July 18, 2009   Seattle/Tahoe

    He's not my physical type: white, 5'9", curly hair, blue eyes... totally different than my preference which is brown, tall, thin, dark eyes...

    BUT, personality-wise he couldn't be more perfect, which is a testament to not judging by appearance!

     
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    PopRox    September 17, 2011  

    He's not my "type" at all... every guy I dated before him was 6'2"+... blonde hair, blue eyes.... and never treated me right!

     He's 6', brown hair, brown eyes.... so I was like... eh... I don't know (I was set up by one of my co-workers) and then I realized he treated me well and that he was an amazing person and made me want to be a better preson! Guess I just needed to realize that appearance "type" doesn't matter, but my ideal type of person did. So glad I woke up :)

     
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    MightySapphire      

    I always imagined that "My type" was a tall, musical type.  But I've always dated guys my height, not musical at all!  My FI is right in there, not what I imagine I go for but precisely what I want in a man.  How wierd is that?

    How many of you find that there's the imaginary guy you thought was your type, then there's the reality of what is really your type?

     
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    spunkyteach       Missouri

    It's a good thing he isn't my type as my type in the past has proven to be lying cheating a-hole...hahaha

     
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    bellenga    July 31, 2010   Georgia

      T's totally my type and me his type .  He's tall, dark, and with blue eyes! Directly outta the preppy handbook but can get dirty and loves to hike, kayak, and go off-roading.  He's also so darn intelligent it blows me away sometimes.

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    SaraBMarried    July 2nd 2009   Boston(Stoughton)MA

    I'm not sure i nessicarily have a type, but FH is both different and the same from the otehrs i have dated. He is quiet and soft spoken but gives off this bad-a$$ edge. But when you get past that he is the most sweetest, intelligent guys you could ever meet. Appearence-wise i always went for the punk-rocker; mohawk, tight,black clothing, piercings,tats but FH is the complete polar opposite,lol, baggy jeans, his shirt matches his shoes, his hair is either perfectly gelled or he wears a hat. And best of all. . .he "gets" me, he can completley penetrate the walls i put up and well. . . i love him. . .lol obviously

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    liztwinz    10/17/2009   SW Georgia

    He was definitely NOT my type. We met online dating and he has told me over and over again how he kept reading my profile and thinking that there was nothing in "what I wanted in a partner" that he fit with. He sent me winks, smiles, ecards-you name it. I clicked on his profile, we started chatting-and a year and several months later-we are engaged! :) I would have never met David if I hadn't stepped outside my box-he is everything I never knew I always wanted. So romantic (to the point that my friends say he is romantically cheesy-lol-and I LOVE it!) so tender, so willing to make it absolutely clear about how he feels about me-he adores my kids and they adore him, we fit, we work...and I would have never known it.

     
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    Gemini Stars    May 01, 2010   East TN

    It is crazy just how much my FI is my type. Both physically and personality wise. We just go together so well. I am thankful every single day that I have found someone like him.

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    bulldoggrl    10/3/09   Los Angeles, CA

    I have two types....super athletic/fit, and musician rocker.  My FI is the second.  Long blonde hair, lead vocals and rhythm guitar in a metal band.

    Pesonality wise...we are polar opposites.  I am eternally optimistic, he is dark and pessimistic.  We do eachother good that way, I bring him up and he brings me down.  Both are necessary.

    Even though we are the yin to the others yang, we mesh very well, I think part of it is we know we have our own things, and let eachother go do them when we need to get away.

     
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    teeleaf22    June 11, 2010   Milford, PA (wedding in Easton, PA)

    he was so not my type... I had never dated a man with blonde hair, blue eyes, older, etc etc... I went on the date .. my first reaction to his photo was "eh.. not bad.. after a long string of bad dates .. it's an evening out"  Well... he turned out to be everything I wanted. He is humble, fun, corny, family oriented, hard worker, loving... everything I needed and had never found before!

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    tessabella76    September 12, 2009   Ohio

    He is! But it took me a long long time to realize that dorky-computer geek-star wars and star trek lovin-biology major-outdoorsy-nascar lover-harley rider was my type! Unfortunately, I used to go for the either the preppy pretty boy or super sexy bad boy. And now, every week when we watch Big Bang Theory and I laugh my a*& off, I realize, I've found the perfect guy for me.

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    Samisomsam    March 13, 2010   Longview, WA

    I voted a while ago, but now I don't remember what I voted. Now I'm going to go with, not my type. When we first started dating, it was just as friends. He wasn't a Christian and I was, was the main thing; and he's outgoing and I'm not; but none of that stopped us and I've actually grown since being with him.

     
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    Miss Pinot Grigio    March 21, 2009   Indianapolis, IN

    Not as tall as the "typical" guy I used to date....but he's got the "dark" and "handsome" parts down to a T. Is he your type? :  wedding the one love relationships Icon Biggrin

     
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    mary-alice-me    May 24, 2009   Kentucky

    I'm surprised to see so few votes for not having a type!

    I voted he's not my type... so I guess I had no type. He doesn't look like my type, his job isn't my type, his background and geography aren't my type, but then again my "type" had failed me over and over and he's wonderful!!

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    MissTX    May 17, 2013   Texas

    @rnc620: "Personality wise; he is loud and loves to be the life of the party.  When we first met he just kept asking me out, and I thought this guy is such a player and so in my face."

    hahaha SAME with my SO! I didn't even look at him twice when I met him because I was like, he is the player of the entire town, no way. He asked me out twice WHILE I still had a boyfriend. I was like definitely a player. Turns out...he is just a loud, fun, outgoing, flirt. hahaha definitely not a player. so funny how our perceptions change!

     
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    NehaPrasad92       England

    Definitely my type - I've always liked tall (he's 6'0, I'm 5'4), fair haired, fair skinned and fair eyed guys (he has blue eyes!). And ones mainly with Southern accents (SO is from TN). And his personality compliments mine wonderfully, we can have intelligent conversations as well as 'muck about'. Not to mention he's MUCH better with money than I am, more a saver than a spender! It's perfect :) 

     
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    SimplyChic11    December 30, 2011  

    I don't really have a type but my DH is nothing like other guys I've dated. I always had a thing for big, manly men though and am so glad DH fits the bill lol. He's 6'3" and a brick wall, I love feeling safe next to him. 

     
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    Mrs.Estep    December 11, 2010   VA

    Well I have been with my husband since I was 15 so I didn't really have a type. But since you're asking, yes he is! He is dark haired with dark eyes, a gorgeous smile, AMAZING personality which means the most, very patient, kind, silly, funny, serious when he needs to be... My superman! :-)

     
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    ticatica    July 2012   UK

    Couldn't vote....he really wasn't my type but now he totally is :)

     
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    gramgeek    March 10, 2013  

    I voted for sort of. I like tall, dark and handsome. My SO is taller than that, darker than that and handsome(but not my original type handsome)!

    Funny thing is, before I met him and when I was dating and searching for a relationship, I drew some pictures of what my future relationship would look like with a face of my future SO for the sake of law of attraction. One year into our relationship I looked back at it and was like WOW! Our relationship and he looked VERY SIMILAR to my drawings!

     
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    futuremrskgt    November 16, 2013  

    My "type" apparently was brunette, tan skin, and sort of exotic because that was all I dated. My FI has strawberry blonde hair, fair skin, and very German. Far from my "type", but I can't imagine myself with anyone else! He's my new type :)

     
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    As far as personality?  Every last bit.  Motivated, career-focused, romantic, considerate,  funny, charming.  He's got it all :).

    As for looks...Well, my type has always been tall dark and handsome.  He's handsome, and has amazing thick, black wavy hair and really dark brown eyes and basically looks like Eric from the Little Mermaid...if Eric was 5"4.  Yes, he's short, and yes, I'm taller (5"6) and we get a LOT of jokes about it from our families and friends.  It bugged me on our first date (I figured I'd never see him again when I first got out of the car and saw him...it didn't help I was wearing my tallest heels!) but after that I just fell in love with who he was and that was it...but I'll be barefoot at our wedding nonetheless ;)

     
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    jocember    August 17, 2013   Syracuse, NY

    I remember the first moment I realized I liked my FI, looking at him sitting in his dorm room strumming at a guitar, wearing a cheeky graphic tee and grinning at me. SO my type. My ideal guy is a cuddly, sweet, slightly geeky guy with a wickedly sarcastic sense of humor (think Jack Black, Seth Rogan) and FI is that down to a tee. We play Mario Kart together and quote cat macros at one another constantly. He's everything I ever wanted.

     
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    fireNice    December 2012  

    Great question!!  : )

    Mine is totally not my type!!  I've always dated bad boys & jocks. Trouble & drama! 

    My fiancé is an adorable nerd guy. Loving & kind.  

    My friends convinced me to give him a chance. Super glad now that they did.  Never been so happy!!  

     
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    MsMonkey    June 1, 2013   Denver, CO

    Lookswise, yes. I have always love muscular, broad-shouldered men with blue eyes and lighter hair. He has that rugged, country boy thing going and I've always been into that :)

    Personality-wise...it's hard to explain. He is nothing like I THOUGHT I wanted, but everything I want now. I have always liked intelligent, well-read men who are into art. Sensitive types, who are very showy in their affection. My SO likes camping and football and would rather chop down a tree than read a book. We are SO different, but somehow it works! We always joke, because whenever we go out, he's in dirt-stained carharts with a tee shirt and camo hat, while I'm usually dressed to the nines :P

     
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    Coffee cup    December 7, 2012   Sonora, Mexico

    He is my type, simple, down to hearth, smart, usefull guy. It helps I find him handsome.

    We were too young when we started dating so I didn't have a set type, he was the kind of guy I liked and the kind of guy I could stand, we were friends first so we matched.

    I always joke with him about how he reuined other man for me cause he has all the cualities I like, so no other guy will be good enough.

     
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    Spoonie    September 9, 2012   UK

    I never really had a type :)

     

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