- 7 years ago
- Wedding: August 2011
I normally come to you guys with lighthearted planning questions but tonight I come in search of opinions on a very serious matter…… Is it normal to be scared of marrying your best friend???
Here’s a lil background….I have always come across as in control and very unsensitive. Lately I have been upset every lil argument has me in tears and threating to leave. Now I absolutely love my FI and no intention of leaving but lately I have been different. We are just under 6 months til our big day that has been 6 years ( on valentines day) in the making. During that 6 years we have been through more both emotionally and finacially then some people go through in their entire marriage.I believe that we have a strong foundation. And I’m finally at a place in my life where I am truly happy. The problem is i’m afraid. I am afraid that all my eggs are in one basket so to speak. I put my heart and soul into this relationship and couldn’t imagine my life without him but i’m scared to death that we will end up like every other married couple I ever knew, either divorced or miserable. I don’t know if i’m having a mini melt down as the realization that I’m really about to be married hit me or if this is normal.