(Closed) Is it bad for me to be upset?!!

posted 8 years ago in Pets
Post # 3
Hostess
18646 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

I’m so sorry!  Maybe she didn’t understand that she was yours and you would take her when you had a place?  I understand you being upset though I don’t think that it is going to help your relationship by staying mad at her over it.  Unless there is a way to get the kitten back, but probably not.

Post # 4
Member
2513 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2009

I’m sorry this happened to you! How sad! πŸ™ I’m sure you do miss your kitty & I would be so freaking mad. I can’t imagine anyone giving my cat away while I was gone & trusting them to care for her!

I don’t know what the relationship is like between you and her, but I think you are justified in being mad at her. Hopefully it won’t hurt the relationship with you and your FI in the long run, but I think you should definately have a talk with her & let her know how this has affected you.

Once again, I’m so sorry πŸ™ I hope somehow or someway you can get the kitty back! Maybe if she gave her to a close friend or something, she can explain the situation & get her back.

Post # 5
Member
5498 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2010

I would be upset too! *HUGS* I’m sorry this happend!

Post # 7
Hostess
18646 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

I was hoping it was a misunderstanding why she would get rid of the kitten.  Like thinking that you didn’t want it?  Anyway, I would have your FI talk to her about it and let her know how upset you are about losing the kitten.

Post # 9
Hostess
18646 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

Yeah, that’s so sad that you had your own little kitty and now it’s gone.  That’s the worst feeling.

Post # 10
Member
5993 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

oh you poor thing, how disappointing for you – sending some virtual hugs because animals arent “just” pets, they can be family and your FMIl just gave yours away πŸ™

Post # 11
Member
507 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2010

I’m so sorry this happened! *hugs* Could there possibly be a way for her to get the kitty back? I mean, this happened recently, right? You said you found out today. It seems pretty certain that you are more attached to the kitty than the person who took it. It makes more sense for THEM to get a new cat and for you to get your kitty back!

Post # 13
Hostess
18646 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

I can’t believe they would just hand a kitten to someone who installed cable TV!  And I don’t think it is fair of them to not complain about having the kitten there but then make it a big deal.  Wish I could share my kitten with you.  Here, a virtual kitten!

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Post # 14
Member
507 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2010

If they felt like they were being taken advantage of because of the kitty being in their house, they should have said something instead of simply giving it away out of the blue! Maybe if they were buying the kitty food and taking care of the kitty litter and didn’t want to deal with that anymore they could have told you or your fiance to take on those duties. And if they weren’t and the only problem they had was that the kitty was still in the house, then at least they should have said something instead of giving it away with no previous warning!

You absolutely have the right to be upset. She should try to get the kitty back. Gave the kitty to the cable guy?? What, did the guy came in and go “oh, cute kitty!” and then they were all like “you like it? take it!” and that’s it?? :-  I hope you get your kitty back…

Post # 16
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4567 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

… that stinks! I would be ticked. Although in their defense, my parents wouldn’t like having to take care of a cat that they didn’t want either…

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