- 5 years ago
- Wedding: December 2013
Hi bees let me tell you a little about us. We met in highschool and we been together ever since about to be 6 years in November we been through alot together. When we started dating i got diagnose with type 1 diabetes i was 14 and he was 17 he stay by me through everything ( he even learn how to give injections). In 2009 his mom got diagnose with leukimia it was a really hard time for him and all his family, i was there for him like he was there for me.
He Propose in February 14, 2012, i am so happy cant wait to spend the rest of my life with him, and i know he is too. We were planning the wedding we were looking at venues and we have the date saved at our church. and then in July his mom went to get a check up and it come out that the leukimia had came back 🙁 It was a sock she has had 2 bone marrow transplants in 1 year and the doctors had said that she was ok that they didnt think it would come back.
This time it was really bad she was in the ICU for almost 2 week stay with her during the nights they did more chemo and radiation it was a really hard time BUT I am happy to say that by August she not only out of the ICU but also she was recover and out of the hospital. 2 weeks later the doctors said that she didnt have any more cancer cells inher bodies 🙂
We are really happy that she is finally well again, but no my FI feels that we shouldnt have a wedding that we should just get together and thats it. He thinks that if his mom leukimia come back he wouldnt feel confortable having a wedding. I understand him 100 % I wouldnt feel confotable either. But i have always dreamed of having a wedding it doesnt matter if its a bug party or just our closes family members i have always picture my dad walking me down the isle of the church. My family keep telling me that i should have a big wedding and my FI tells me not ot have a wedding.
Is it bad for me to still want a wedding?