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    Punkin325    10-18-08   Silver Spring, MD

    for me as the bride to give favors to the guests at my bridal shower? I am not planning the shower and have nothing to do with throwing it.  I asked for a lingerie shower (women only) because we are older and have many of the things new couples need to start a home.  Lingerie is something we can both enjoy.Is it inappropriate... :  wedding bridal shower favors corset soaps Icon Biggrin

    Anyway, I found the cutest little corset shaped soaps on Etsy and I thought they would make adorable favors/gifts to the guests and a thank you for coming.  Is this inappropriate?

    Thanks!

     
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    wubz    October 18, 2008   Albuquerque, NM

    No that is not inappropriate at all!! I think you can do what you want at your shower.

     
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    ktessa       Tampa

    Absolutely not...that sounds great.  Go for it!!

     
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    CarolineG    10/12/2008   Phoenix, AZ

    I think that would be a lovely gesture, and a nice surprise to the other guests!

     
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    rebecca    September 13, 2008  

    I'd clear it with the hostesses. If I were to have done this, my hostesses would've thought that I was stepping on their toes ("She thinks that I can't handle the shower favors??").

     
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    MsPopcorn    August 2007   Toronto, ON, Canada

    I agree.  check with the hostess, but otherwise, there's no problem.

     
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    QueenoftheClick    11/29   NY

     

     

    I think it is cool.

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    KateMW    8.30.03   Birmingham

    I think it's a really cute idea and it would be a sweet thank you for the people who come.

     
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    katze    8/23/08   DC

    What Etsy shop? They sound great!

    And I agree - clear it with the hostess :) Or, just get one (or a few in different scents?) for her as a "thank you for hosting!" I think that would be really sweet and you wouldn't have to worry about whether it was appropriate.

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    Punkin325    10-18-08   Silver Spring, MD

    Thanks, ladies.

    The shop is 2cute4youfavors. 

    She is brand new, but the sample she sent me is very nice!!

     
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    2cute4youfavors    10/28/06   Sacramento, CA

    Thank you Punkin325! I am glad you liked my soaps!

     Yes, I am a new business on Etsy, but I have been selling my bridal and baby shower soap favors for over a year on Ebay!

    If you would like to order my adorable Corset Soaps please go to 2cute4youfavors.etsy.com or e-mail me at twocutefavors@yahoo.com. They are only $1.00 each!

    Is it inappropriate... :  wedding bridal shower favors corset soaps 2308560422 83ee5fdd56 M Corset Soaps

     

     
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    calibride    May 2008  

    I guess I'm in the minority here but I think its ok to get the favors. I bought and assembled my own bridal shower favors because I was concerned with the amount of money my BM would ultimately end up spending on the entire wedding. BUT I did let her know in advance and told her I'd handle favors and why (and she was fine w/ it). Good luck!

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