Is it just me??

posted 3 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

no i think most brides feel that way. take a weekend when you do not do anything wedding related and relax. it helps

Post # 4
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2014 - Ontario, Canada ♥ EDD- April 2016

Nope, it happened to me several times so far. We’ve been engaged for two years now and we still have five months to go until our weddimg. Even though I love wedding planning and weddings in general, I’ve definitely lost interest at different points. I just give myself a break and then suddenly someday I’ll be super into it again 😉

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

Haha, no. We all get that way. I was baked like 2-3 months before the wedding and I was so glad when it was over. Don’t get me wrong, it was the best day ever and it was amazing to see all my work come together, but I was so tired of the drama and thinking and planning and coordinating and questions and “What color tablecloths do you want on what tables?” that I could have ripped out my hair. I was relieved when I didn’t have to think about it anymore, lol!

Post # 6
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2014

@thumpurr:   You’re not alone! I had SO many moments like this, and a lot of them were in the final few months before the wedding. I can tell you that it will be worth it; our wedding was so much fun and I’m glad we pushed through the stress 🙂

Post # 7
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

@thumpurr:  Not just you! I totally felt this way. I wished we could just cancel everything without it being an imposition for anyone, and just get married in the Rockies ALONE. Argh! The wedding was fun and all, but I still think I would have liked this. Oh well, hindsight. I think our families would have been sad if we didn’t include them. 

My email was blowing up and I had to work full time at my insanely busy job until 12 hours before our flight! We had a destination wedding in Mexico and I was handling all the details. I hid out at our house so that nobody would see how grumpy I was. I didn’t want anyone to think I was unhappy about getting married- that wasn’t it. I just wanted to be left alone to stew.

(We had a little legal ceremony before we left and it is still one of my favourite memories. Just us, and we got ice cream afterwards.)

**internet hugs** Don’t worry! It will all blow over, and then you’ll have some gorgeous pictures instead. 

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