Is it normal to enjoy your husband calling you a whore?

posted 1 year ago in Intimacy
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Helper bee

i would personally be quite offended but to each is their own

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Busy bee

I don’t see what the problem is, it’s just a word. Sometimes when things get rough, I like similar talk.

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Buzzing bee

Quite normal to live out sexual fantasies. :) Life needs a little dirty talk every once in a while!

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Busy bee

I hesitate to label what others do in the privacy of their own bedrooms as “normal” or not, but I can say from personal experience, it bothered me. A part of my brain that is hard-wired for feminism really disliked it. It was hot for a minute, and then I wanted the name-calling to stop.

But to each her own, I think!

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Busy bee

For me personally that isn’t normal, but ive heard of couples doing that before so it doesn’t surprise me too much. I think I would laugh if my SO said that to me, though. lol

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Sugar bee

Whatever flips your switch as long as both parties are legal and consenting is A-OK by me!

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Sugar bee

I think it’s hot during the throes of passion when a sudden, “Oh, you dirty bitch” slips out when I’m on top or doing a new oral technique. As long as it doesn’t happen in “real life,” it’s hot to me. But a lot of negative talk isn’t cool.

As long as someone isn’t disrepectful to their partner in everyday life, I think kinky play like that in the bedroom is fine.

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Bee Keeper

It’s not uncommon in the bedroom. In everyday conversation, that would be bizarre.

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Honey bee

I don’t see an issue with it at all, Christian or non, as long as both parties understand the parameters involved in ” fantasy time” while having sex.  Sometimes you just gotta let your freak flag fly, and this is one way people do it!

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Bumble bee

I would say that’s fine for behind closed doors. As long as he doesn’t talk to her like that on a regular basis. It’s dirty talk!

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Honey bee

I’m a Christian (and was a SAHM for a long time, though not homeschooling) and I think there is nothing wrong with a Christian couple doing this, if they are both happy with it (as evidently they are). As for whether it’s normal: so long as it’s not sinful, who cares? Personally I wouldn’t like it (at all!) if my husband called me that, but that’s not the point.

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Bumble bee

@paula1248:  So it’s not okay if non christians do it?

ETA:In the context of the question I kind of understand what you mean. But as a general statement it really makes me question what you mean.

 

I am confused by that statement.

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