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is it normal to feel this way?

posted 4 months ago in Emotional

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Blushing bee

morgyporgy October 20, 2012

I am 23 year and I am getting married in october. My Fiance is 26, soon to be 27. I have always dreamed of getting married, but to be honest, I am kinda sad. One because I am having to give up my name. I am not a feminist, but I feel like I am losing myself a little bit, is that normal to feel that way?

I am also sad, because I am planning a wedding, building up all of this excitement, getting all of my ideas out of my head, and then after oct 20, it will be over. I don't want kids for a while, so I am scared and sad that things will get boring after the wedding day.. is that normal to feel that way to?

dont get me wrong I am super excited to marry my best friend, it is just a lot!

is this normal to feel this way?

4 months ago

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Busy bee

blingybride February 2011

Weddings and wedding planning can be very emotional so it's ok to feel this way. Enjoy planning now and don't anticipate the boredom after the wedding . Think of the free time you will have and also you will be able to get back to doing things you probably don't have time for now. As far as name change I think it can be difficult to make that change even if you are excited to take your hubby's name considering you have had your name for 23 years. Think you are starting a new and exciting phase of your life as a married woman.... congrats

4 months ago