(Closed) is it okay that i'm jealous?

posted 5 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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607 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

you’re the one he bought the E ring for, screw a 3000dollar necklace!!  ask for the LV after your first baby as a push present, he won’t say no then!!!

Post # 4
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964 posts
Busy bee

She received a $3K necklace and you got a $47K ring. It’s a no brainer in my opinion. If he was saving for $47K ring do you blame him for not purchasing all the other gifts for you.

Post # 7
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2106 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

“My fiance bought me a $47,500 ring and I’m upset that he bought his ex a $3,000 piece of jewelry before he met me.”  …………

I will pretend to get over that statement. You can ask your fiancé why he bought LV bags for ex’s and not you when you’re married to him. Don’t ask him beforehand or your materialism might put him off. 

Post # 9
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: January 2013

@nikix:  didn’t you just post a thread about seeing other e-rings as you look for your wedding band, and no longer being happy with the ring that your SO picked out?

Be happy with what you have, and who cares what gifts he gave to his ex’s in the past. I hope he never see’s these posts of yours, he may have second thoughts.

Who gets a $40, 000 dollar e-ring and complains about what he bought his ex girlfriends? He choose you to be his wife.

Learn to be happy with what you have, or you will never be happy.

Stuff is just stuff! They do not equal happiness!

 

Post # 10
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8473 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2012

What?! If I comment nothing good will come out of it, so I’m slowly stepping away. 

Post # 12
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9063 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2012

That ring is worth more than my car.

If I had that much money in a ring, it wouldn’t matter what my husband bought anyone else at any time.

Post # 14
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8042 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2013

@nikix:  I think you’re overthinking this. A $47,000 ring?! Wow. Reading your last thread I guessed it was around $50K and this confirms it. You must have quite the lifestyle. Wouldn’t surprise me if everyone was jealous of YOU.

I am sure you get things she did not. You’re only hurting yourself by getting jealous. I’m not judging since I can be pretty irrational too… but trust me, you will feel a lot better when you let this go. Zero reason to be jealous.

 

 

Post # 15
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2553 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

@nikix:  Cant tell if you are being serious? Why so unhappy?

Post # 16
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2013

Just read the “he won’t let me work” comment — could this be where your unhappiness stems from? Find something that makes you happy/takes up your time (paid or not) and DO it. He can’t force you to do anything. If he is seriously FORCING you, then don’t marry him or you’re in for a very unpleasant life.

 

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