(Closed) Is it okay to Invite people to your bridal shower……

posted 7 years ago in Etiquette
  • poll: Is it ok?
    Yes : (4 votes)
    6 %
    No : (59 votes)
    94 %
  • Post # 3
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    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: April 2011

    Etiquette rule says nay… if they’re invited to the shower, bachelorette party, or any other “wedding” prep function.. they’re invited to the wedding.

    Post # 4
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    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2011

    No, you should have been invited to the wedding. 

    Post # 5
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    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: April 2011

    Oh wow… I answered before it showed your whole post.

    You should’ve been invited.

    Post # 6
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    Busy Beekeeper

    i am pretty lax on many of the so called etiquette “rules”, but this is one where i do think it would be rude to invite someone to a shower and not a wedding!  that to me says u are inviting them for a gift only!

    Post # 7
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    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: April 2011

    I agree with PurpleUnicorn… I even followed that for my Craft Days with the girls… I didn’t ask if someone wanted to help unless they were invited.

    I would give your friend a call…. or even just show up. <– well, no… I wouldn’t just show up but boy would I talk about it! lol

    Post # 8
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    Newbee
    • Wedding: June 2011

    are you the only one at the bridal shower not invited to the wedding? what are the circumstances? i wouldn’t make a rash judgement especially if the situation couldn’t allow for it. Is she invited to your wedding? Then that would just be rude of her not to invite you to hers. But what are the circumstances?

    Post # 9
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    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: June 2011

    Etiquette really dictates that if you’re invitated to any pre wedding related events that you should be invited to the actual wedding.  I hate to say it but it sort of sounds just like a cash/gift grab.

    Post # 10
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    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: February 2010

    I feel like that’s just asking for a gift, which isn’t ok.

    Post # 11
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    602 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    I think it’s ok only if they know they’re not invited to the wedding. A bunch of my mom’s friends want to come to my shower, so we explained to them that because of space we can’t invite them to the wedding or that they’re on the B list and then left the decision up to them. They still want to come, so we’re inviting them.

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