Is it *really* that weird if the flower girl doesn't drop flower petals?

posted 4 years ago in Traditions
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

It’s forbidden at my church and I’m sure it’s not uncommon. So I would so no, not that weird!

Post # 4
3599 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

I was a flower girl in my aunt’s wedding.  I carried a basket of silk flowers instead of dropping any petals.  

Post # 5
2555 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

Not wierd at all. 🙂

Post # 6
2153 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

Nope, our girls had ribbon wands.

Post # 7
11027 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2009

That is not at all odd.

My flower girl carried a beautiful pomander and didn’t “drop” anything.  (The real flower petals you see on the sides of the “aisle” were placed there before the wedding began.)

Post # 8
6566 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2013

I’ve never actually seen a flower girl drop flowers so it’s not weird 🙂

Post # 9
1619 posts
Bumble bee

The last wedding I went to the flower girls handed a daisy to each person sitting on the aisle. 

Post # 11
294 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

Nope. A number of churches don’t allow it anymore because of the mess.

Post # 12
2578 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

My DD/flowergirl carried an identical bouquet to mine… except hers was a bit smaller.

Post # 13
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

We are not allowed at our venue, so were having our flower girl carry a sign! Bought it off etsy.





and then we can use for photos after ceremony plus i wnat to hang it in our house!


( the first sign is the actual one we bought, and i LOVE it!)

Post # 15
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2010

No, our flower girl carried a flower ball (you know, one of those foam speres that look like a ball of flowers?). She was too young to drop petals, and the alternative was adorable!

Post # 16
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2014

I’ve never seen a flower girl drop petals..

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