(Closed) Is it too late for thank-you notes?

posted 5 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
3175 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I don’t think it’s too late (better late than never), but it might be awkward getting 2 at once…can you just combine? That’s not optimal, but I wouldn’t be offended.

Post # 4
319 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

I would combine them if possible and just write a thank you on the wedding thank you for those that attended the shower! That should work!

Post # 5
1158 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

I don’t think it is too late.

Post # 6
1810 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

It is never…NEVER too late for a thank you card!

Post # 8
46262 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

It is never too late to be polite.

Post # 9
986 posts
Busy bee

It’s better late than never. Send em! 🙂 

Post # 10
986 posts
Busy bee

Double post.

Post # 11
564 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

Definitely do thank-yous. And I would do separate notes for the shower and the wedding. They went to the trouble to attend two events; you can go to the trouble to send two notes. And you said the shower was small, so it shouldn’t be that much extra work.


Post # 12
633 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

It’s not too late, and I think most people understand that things get in the way and you can’t send cards out immediately…but as the receiver of the cards, I’d rather get one combined card than 2 separate ones. You know they’re probably ending up in the trash anyway, so don’t ‘waste’ the paper. It’s the thought that counts!

Post # 13
11273 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2012

definitely send the shower thank yous.  if they get two at once, oh well, they will feel special.

Post # 14
7904 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2012 - Pelican Grand Beach Resort

It’d never too late. You should send separate thank yous for the separate events.

Post # 15
2433 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2009

Never too late! Just get to them soon. Also, if it were me, I would send separate thank yous for the shower and the wedding.

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