Post # 1
My sister threw me a small bridal shower a few weeks before the wedding in the middle of September. Then I got so caught up in the last minute details I never got around to writing the thank-you notes. Now the wedding has come and gone, and I am wondering if it is too late to write the notes from the shower? I am working on Thank you notes for the wedding as well. What should I do? Will I look tacky sending the shower notes out now?
Post # 3
I don’t think it’s too late (better late than never), but it might be awkward getting 2 at once…can you just combine? That’s not optimal, but I wouldn’t be offended.
Post # 4
I would combine them if possible and just write a thank you on the wedding thank you for those that attended the shower! That should work!
Post # 5
I don’t think it is too late.
Post # 6
It is never…NEVER too late for a thank you card!
Post # 7
Ok-and how do I thank people whose names were on a group gift but they didn’t’t come to the shower?
Post # 8
It is never too late to be polite.
Post # 9
It’s better late than never. Send em! 🙂
Post # 11
Definitely do thank-yous. And I would do separate notes for the shower and the wedding. They went to the trouble to attend two events; you can go to the trouble to send two notes. And you said the shower was small, so it shouldn’t be that much extra work.
Post # 12
It’s not too late, and I think most people understand that things get in the way and you can’t send cards out immediately…but as the receiver of the cards, I’d rather get one combined card than 2 separate ones. You know they’re probably ending up in the trash anyway, so don’t ‘waste’ the paper. It’s the thought that counts!
Post # 13
definitely send the shower thank yous. if they get two at once, oh well, they will feel special.
Post # 14
- Wedding: March 2012 - Pelican Grand Beach Resort
It’d never too late. You should send separate thank yous for the separate events.
Post # 15
Never too late! Just get to them soon. Also, if it were me, I would send separate thank yous for the shower and the wedding.