Is it weird hosting a lingerie shower at a wine bar?

posted 4 years ago in Parties
Post # 3
474 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

Yes as other people including men may be around.

Post # 4
2550 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

Yes. I would hate to go to a wine bar and have a bunch of strangers yelling over lingerie.

Post # 5
2494 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

@vanessa7:  It depends on your crowd. Personally I’d be ok with this as wine bars are generally smaller and less crowded than regular bars, and really your probably never going to see the strangers there again… Also the crowd in our local wine bars is more professional and polite than the usual bar crowd. But I could careless what strangers think & LOVE me some wine; I do know quite a few people that would be very embarrased for strangers to be seeing their gifts…. 

Maybe said strangers will join in the celebration and buy a few drinks for ya’ll!


Post # 6
3753 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

@vanessa7:  I’d look for a private room somewhere. The giggle fest might get O-L-D for other patrons.

Post # 7
3584 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Yes.  This would be odd.  We gave my friend some lingerie for her bachelorette, but we did it in the hotel room while pregaming before dinner. 

Post # 8
9697 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper

@LilRhodyGem:  +1, this. Also, I personally wouldn’t want anyone other than my husband buying me lingerie. Ugh.

Post # 10
2550 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

how about you pay for a room at a hotel and use it as a venue?

Post # 12
670 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

I think the day sounds really fun!  How crowded is the wine bar?  If they have a semi private area or at least a corner you can reserve I think that would be ok.  If you are just in the middle of the bar itself I think it could be awkward.

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