Post # 1
Ok so, usually I am into some rougher stuff (nothin too crazy, just like being spanked, having my hair pulled, etc) but lately I have been having this fantasy of being spanked with a belt! I have no idea where it came from and I havent mentioned it to Fiance, I just wanted to know if it’s weird, if anyone else has tried it and how to bring it up with Fiance. Thanks 🙂
Post # 3
Been reading 50 Shades of Gray?
Post # 4
@LolaMonster: It is not weird, although sometimes fantasies are best left as just fantasies. A belt could really hurt and kill the mood. But if it is something you really want to try, then I am sure the Fiance would be happy to try it.
Post # 5
As someone also into that sort of rough play, I have not tried that (yet) but definitely don’t think it’s weird! if it were me, I’d probably bring it up in a sexy way while we were already being intimate, like a ‘hey baby how about…’ sort of thing.
Like a PP said, I think that if he’s already loving being rough with you he’ll totally be up for trying this 🙂
Post # 6
I feel like that’s something that’s well within the “rough, but not scary” realm. Ha ha I say go for it! I think you could bring it up in casual conversation or in the heat of the moment (though I’d go w/casual, just so there aren’t any surprises). It might be kind of odd to him @ first, but if he sees that you like it, he’ll be all about it, I’m sure.
Post # 7
@Mars62312: HAHAHAHA yes!!
Post # 8
Nout wrong with that…although after a quick experiment we did draw the line at a cane.
Post # 9
Every once in a while I like my SO to put his hand around my neck during sexy time. Sort of like a light choking. This was completely my idea. I was kind of chicken to bring it up, so I mentioned it after I had been drinking a little, so I could “blame it on the alcohol” if he thought it was wierd. He took it really well & was willing to do it. I should have felt confident enough to bring it up sober, afterall SO would do anything to please me. Just bring it up with your guy. I’m sure he’ll be willing to accommodate you.
Post # 11
I don’t think there is anythign wrong with it. You like what you like… you might as well give it a try as long as it doesn’t boarder on dangerous!
Post # 13
The only thing I worry about is that he’s a little more “vanilla” than I am in the bedroom. It took him a loooong time to warm up to even spanking. And as it is he’s worried that it will hurt me so it’s more of a love pat, lol. So I’m nervous that it willtotally freak him out.
Post # 15
Okay, this is a little bit off track but it sorted of reminded me of the scene in Game of thrones.. I hope someone knows what Im talking about!
Post # 16
No such thing as weird between two consenting adults! 😉