Is it worth it to invite my fiance's scumbag friend

posted 3 years ago in Grooms/men
  • poll: Invite the scumbag?
    Yep, he's your fiance's friend : (1 votes)
    11 %
    No, he's not worth it : (6 votes)
    67 %
    Other (explain in comments) : (2 votes)
    22 %
  • Post # 3
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    1403 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: February 2014

    If your FI really wants him there then I guess you have to let him come but if your FI is indifferent to it…..NO WAY!

    Getting married is a very special event in your lives.  The people that witness it should only be the ones that support you fully.  The people that you WANT to have in your lives.  He just sounds like another mouth to feed.  I would try to keep him away from the wedding.

    Post # 4
    Member
    128 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: May 2014

    I don’t see why you need to invite his kids.  I know you said you think they’ll keep him in line, but I’ll be honest, if he spent their food stamp money on games, then he’s not thinking about their needs anyway.  Are you inviting lots of kids to your wedding?  If you aren’t then it’s not a breach of etiquette to just extend the invite to this guy and his wife.  Who knows–they may not be able to find a babysitter and decide they can’t come.  *evil smile.*

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