- 4 years ago
- Wedding: April 2015
My FI and I are paying for our own wedding. Recently my father (only living parent, mom died suddenly when I was 17) has started talking about inviting his friends (who are great) and his siblings (not so great).
His siblings have always been cruel to me and my family. Such as not showing up to my mothers funeral, not inviting us to holidays, not inviting us to parties and generally bring treated like crap. I cannot stand the thought of paying for these people won what is supposed to be a wonderful day. Personally I don’t want them there. But dad is insisting on inviting them. I feel that since we are paying for our own wedding, and giving the egregious circumstances and behavior of these people, we should be able not to invite them without a peep from my father
I was wondering if it would be wrong to ask my father to pay for his siblings to attend? These people have made me feel so low and have caused so much pain, I can’t stand the thought of bethel being their on our dime. Is it wrong to feel this way? Is it wrong to ask my father to pay for them?