(Closed) Is it wrong??

posted 9 years ago in Paper
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2009

I’d send them an invitation but include a handwritten note saying you know they said they couldn’t make it, but you wanted to let them know they’re still welcome in case they change their minds.

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2009

Hmm good post. I myself was wondering the same thing.

My FH’s good friend told me be is actually going to another friends wedding on the same date about 8 hours way from where we live so he is a NO for sure. But I didn’t know if I should still give him an invitation?

mabye this is a different scenerio, since we know he does have prior arrangements, not just saying he cant’ come?

Post # 5
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Buzzing bee

I still sent invites to people who said they can’t go just to be polite so they feel included. I didn’t include an RSVP though, or if i did, I didn’t stamp it.

Post # 6
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2009

We had a few guests who are going to be having babies shortly after our wedding and would have had to fly to get to our wedding, so we knew they weren’t coming.  I still invited them and included RSVPs.  I do like the idea or wirting a note.  Even though you know they won’t come, I still wanted them to know that we wished they could be there.

Post # 7
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2009

I am inviting people who told me they cannot come but they are really close freind and I know they would like the invite

Post # 8
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2009

I am sending invitations with stamped RSVPs to those I know cannot come. I just want them to know we wished there were with us.

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