Is my BFP fading? Or am I pysching myself out?

posted 3 years ago in TTC
Post # 3
297 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

Looks the same, if not darker to me lady! FX crossed 😉

Post # 4
108 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

It’s there! Both days. Haha goodness, the first time that I read your post, I thought it said you had a 9 month old! and I’m thinking, well they are not wasting any time here. Congratulations. 

I just got my BPF yesterday too…hehehehe 

Post # 5
7654 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2012

It actually looks slightly darker to me, so that’s good 🙂

Post # 6
3787 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

@brighteyedgirl:  I was JUST looking at your chart like 3 minutes ago and trying to think if I saw you on the charters thread for a while. Didn’t want to say anything until you broke the news.


And 10/15 looks darker to me too! FX this is your baby!

Post # 7
1287 posts
Bumble bee

Looks like the 15th stick is darker, overall, maybe your urine was darker and more “wet”  def looks like a darker line. Relax 🙂 

Post # 8
11668 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@brighteyedgirl:  you’re psyching yourself out! They’re at least the same, if not I think the one from today looks slightly darker.  STOP testing!! 😉  Congrats on baby!

Post # 10
4440 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

the line shouldnt be as dark until later on, it’s not like an ovulation test.

I would not stress out about it, it’s clearly darker and stress is definitely not good in this situation! Stop testing and go see a doctor for your levels.

Post # 11
3360 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

Awww, hun, the second looks darker to me!  Take a FRER, or even better, a digi!  With such clear lines on the cheapies (yes, they’re light, but obviously positive), you should get a blaring positive on the good ones!  Congrats!

Post # 12
2243 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: January 2012

It looks darker AND they also darken as they dry. Look at them again tonight and you’ll see today’s will be visibly darker.

You shouldn’t base your progression on the darkness of cheepies. I had a meltdown when I got my BFP on 14dpo that progressed like this… but I’m 25 weeks now so it really doesn’t mean anything!

Post # 13
1501 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

@brighteyedgirl:  I think it is the same.  It is hard not to do, and I did it as well, but try not to test every day.  I would get a frer, and if it is positive (which it will be), stop!  You aren’t going to do anything but stress yourself out… I know from experience.

 It is funny because my husband had to have emergency hernia surgery right after we got pregnant as well.  I count my blessings we got pregnant when we did because we would of had to wait a few months to keep trying again!

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