(Closed) Is my boyfriend of 8 years invited?

posted 7 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
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1126 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

Having just your name on the invitation would imply that your boyfriend isn’t invited, but since she asked you twice if he’s coming, it’s a bit confusing.  I think you have to call her and ask directly.  It seems a lot easier than trying to read hidden meanings into the cards.

Post # 4
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6893 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2012

It appears she took the low road and was not inviting him – and seems as if she’s testing YOU since she has mentioned this to you twice before. I can honestly say in those circumstances, I probably would have RSVP’d a lovely: No. I’d ask her to clarify, but it’s pretty rude since you two have been together in a committed relationship for so long!

And no, not crazy at all for being upset.

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