(Closed) Is my SO serious?

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
1962 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

Hmmm I know when my Fiance and I were dating we used to joke around about baby names and whatnot. He never asked me about rings like that though… I can think of two things (might be way off base):

1. He likes the idea of discussing a future without actually being ready JUST yet. He may be trying to get a feel for your reaction to some of this.

2. Maybe he really wants to take another step, but doesn’t want to risk ruining a good thing since it’s only been 10 months? I’m not sure if he feels that’s short or not… If the comments to chill out happened after the 6 week budget joke maybe he wants to hold off on discussion until he can afford something better than just a gold band?

If it really bugs you I would maybe wait a few days and then tell him that you really want to have a talk because you feel like you have mixed signals. Mixed signals are not a good thing to have and can hamper other areas of communication. You could tell him you don’t need a definite answer on anything. You would just want to know his general feelings perhaps?

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