Is my wedding looking like a mess? Please help, need opinions!

posted 2 years ago in Decor
  • poll: Do I need to re-evaluate my styling?
    No, I like it. : (38 votes)
    86 %
    Yes, your dress looks weird and doesn't "go" : (2 votes)
    5 %
    Yes, something else is off (explain please) : (4 votes)
    9 %
  • Post # 2
    2725 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: August 2012

    I like it, personally….the only thing I would say is I would incorporate some more blue in the decor, as it seems that there’s a lot of orange and white, and the only blue is the BM dresses…maybe blue painted glass for the centrepieces?

    I don’t think your dress needs to “go”. I didn’t “go” with my husband’s tux, so why should you have to “go” with your FI’s dress? I think the flower girl dress and some of the BM options have a similar flowiness that your dress does, which ties it together nicely.

    PS, The ring bearer outfit? I about died.

    Post # 3
    6525 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: September 2013

    sara_tiara:  i love both dresses. And I think the BMs dresses are cute. Stick with the orange and blue, the bouquets are nice, stay away from the red and yellow abd cocoa-that will clash. Blue and orange together is your pop of color with the white flowers to tone it down. Very pretty. 

    Post # 4
    129 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: September 2013

    It will be lovely. Add some blue touches in the decor, as mentioned above!  Love all the dresses! 

    Post # 5
    1028 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: April 2015

    carlsolindsay:  Hot mess? Are uou kidding? That bold blue will pop with the orange, yellow/golds of autumn. It will also look amazing in that space – just look at the hung pictures and the frames! 

    As far as your dress I think its romantic/ethereal and while your venue looks modern I feel if that’s what you are looking for then go for it. It fits you great!

    Post # 6
    720 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2014

    carlsolindsay:  I agree with PP’s, I would add a little bit more blue as I only see it shining in the bm’s dresses (unless thats just the colour of the models dress in the photos) and definitely don’t have to “match” your fiance’s dress. I think as long as you love each others dress which shows your personalities thats all that matters. Everything goes well in my opinion! I know its always hard to picture everything coming together but it will all look beautiful in the end! Congrats 🙂

    Post # 7
    373 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: June 2015

    Everything looks great, but I do not like the orange clothes for the kids (at least in the photos). Orange can be a harsh color for many people to wear, but it may work in person.

    Post # 8
    154 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: April 2013

    Girl… you are overthinking this!  Everything looks lovely and your dress is beautiful.  Try not to stress and just focus on the things that really matter.  🙂

    Post # 9
    455 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: October 2014

    I think it’s great! Just add just a tiny bit more blue! I love the ring bearer!

    Post # 11
    82 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: Detroit

    I like it!  I especially think the bright, saturated colors will look really nice in your gallery venue.

    Post # 12
    265 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: February 2015

    carlsolindsay:  I like it too! The flower girls dresses also have tulle so it just brings it together!


    Gorgeous venue, BTW!

    Post # 13
    511 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: August 2014

    I also really like it! But I also agree with the above poster who said that adding a bit more blue will bring things together a bit more.

    Post # 14
    9 posts

    I beleive that it looks just fine!  It is your weddingday so you go ahead and enjoy what you want!

    Post # 15
    2151 posts
    Buzzing bee

    I think it looks nice! The only thing I would point out (and maybe it’s just how it looks on my monitor) is that the flower girl and junior bridesmaid dresses are red, not orange. They are definitely and orangey red, but I think next to all your other orange accents they are definitely going to read RED. I’m one of those weird people who see a huge amount of the color spectrum so this would personally drive me crazy. Like I said though, it could just be these photos/my monitor.

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