Is there a guy that both you and one of your friends have slept with?

posted 3 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 3
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

@lovelyinside:  Yes! It’s not like they were relationships, just druken encounters and happened pretty far apart from each other. We just laugh about it. 

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

Haha I think it MAY have happened!

We were all friends (Me, a close gf of mine and a guy). All of our friends liked this guy at one point during high school (incl myself lol)

After high school and college, we ended up all hanging out and this guy and I slept together a couple times. He wanted a relationship but I didn’t.

A while later (probably a year or two) this good friend of mine and I had a falling out and stopped talking for like 2 years. I heard through the grapevine that the guy and her apparently dated for a bit and/or slept together.

I obviously don’t know for sure. She and I have started talking again but I’ve never asked her and never will. It’s none of my business. But it would be weird if they did lol

Post # 5
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2014

@lovelyinside:  In college, yes. We both hooked up with the same guy…no niether of us were “into him” and we haven’t even brought it up since college. All three of us are engaged or married, so it would be weird to say something.

Post # 6
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

Yes, stuff like that happened when I was younger.

Post # 7
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2015

No, never. But a lot of my friends waited until marriage or plan on it, so the pool of people any of us have slept with is small. I believe I am the biggest contributor with 2 people, lol

Post # 8
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2014 - Prague

More than I care to admit to. 😛

ETA: Nobody ended up married to any of the guys, though. (Or girls, for that matter.) And we all knew. 

Post # 9
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Busy bee

@lovelyinside:  I slept with a guy when I was really young that one of my really good friends just had a baby with! FI and I have dinner with them all of the time. it was so long ago that it doesn’t matter, also he was a bit of a player in his younger days and we live in a small ish town, so it’s not like I’m the only one!

Post # 10
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

Here’s a soap opera for you.

My ex boyfriend of two years before I got together with my husband is now my brother in law – he’s married to my SIL. 

My now SIL and I and her husband (my boyfriend at the time) and her boyfriend at the time used to be best friends, we did everything together. my ex boyfriend cheated on me with his now wife, and they’ve been together ever since. My now husband didn’t enter into this picture until after all this drama, but we all worke together (like we literally all worked together – me, ex, SIL, her boyfriend, my now husband). 

it was quite the ugly situation for a while, but we are all good friends now, as weird as that sounds. 

Post # 12
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Bee Keeper

Can’t say this ever happened. I guess it’s like an unspoken rule we always had, “hands off the exes.”

Post # 13
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

Yup… it happens when you have a large group of mixed (guys/girls) friends when you’re young. There are at least 2 that I can think of… Embarassed

Post # 15
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2013 - Wynn Las Vegas

Yep, a couple :/ We were young and rowdy.

Post # 16
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2015

Yup! My roommate and I both slept with the same guy freshman year (before I started dating FI, obviously). I was kind of “dating” the guy for awhile, but things ended because it was freshman year of college. She slept with him a couple of months later and I didn’t care, although she did feel the need to hide it from me. Didn’t affect our friendship, because it was stupid and by that point, I had already started dating FI.

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