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I'm not asking for specific names or anything, but are there certain posters who you just KNOW you would really dislike in your actual life?
There are certain bees whose posts I always skip over because I really don't like the advice they give or the style they give it in. Sometimes I'll read their advice and I just cringe >< Also, the more we reveal our likes/dislikes on certain posts (ie. are you snobby?) the more I realize who these specific people are.
On the other hand there are some posters who I wish lived closer to me because I am positive we would get along fabulously!
And yes, I know this is a forum just for fun, but when you spend so much time on here you are bound to form opinions about certain posters.
no one on here that I dislike but there are some people whose posts I will read first because of the poster. If they become bees after I "followed" them in the hive, they are always my favorite bees!
man, there's this girl on here named babyboo and she's just so annoyi... jk! 
there aren't any specific people that irk me, but there are a few that i know i'll either glaze over or follow. i've been more of a lurker than a commenter!
@elliestan: hahahaha... yea now I'm like omgggg everyone here probably hates me.
@elliestan: haha I've been around long enough I figure there has to be someone on this board who doesn't like me. I know it works both ways :p
@TinyTina: It doesn't make you a bad bee, it makes you human!
YES. and they tend to be the ones that make certain posts go downhill into the dreaded snarky territory.
hahahahah, yes, and i was actually talking about it with my moh the other day. i wasnt like i dont even know this girl and i dont like her, lol.
@Ms.Teddy: Hhahaha welllll I'm putting trolls in an entirely different category....
On the flipside, does anyone ever follow a ceratin poster just because you know there will be good drama to follow, haha?
Okay, this is very funny. I spend an embarrassing amount of time on WB and honestly don't dislike any posters. Maybe it's because apart from the bloggers and some ladies I see in the galleries and DIY posts, I don't really know individual posters. Also, as a New Yorker, I have really thick skin. It takes a lot more than WB to rattle me and based on what I see on the interwebs, the ladies of WB are really nice.
Lol yes.
On the other hand now I'll be worrying that people don't like me! haha.
@babyboo: I secretly like the drama threads because they're funny to read through. LOL
@kate169: ME TOO.... I rarely comment on them though, but man sometimes it's better than a soap opera hahaha
@bRooklynRocks: I'm not a New Yorker, but I do surely have thick[er] skin.
That being said, there are a few Bees whom I'd rather not read their comments just because I know they are...meh, mediocre.
I think after a while spent here, that you kinda know what kind of answers you'll get from which posters.. I mean, I think if we could hide the username and avatar, just read the comments and try to guess who said what, some of us ladies would have pretty good scores!
So, even if we don't know the posters in real life, I think we get to know each other on a certain level, and of course, we're not bound to like every single individual. There are threads I just don't read when I see who started it, and others I'll go read first depending on the poster.
Yes, there are a couple of posters who irk me. And yes, yes, yes, sometimes I follow a post because I know it's going to get entertaining.
There are a couple I can't stand, unfortunately, but I like 98% of the Bees, haha.
@TinyTina:haha...yeah well im not even counting the trolls! and I just found the post "are you a snob" or snobby or whatever...WOW. I think my number just went up. lol
Yep! Both bloggers (not many though) and some posters on the boards. For the most part I just skip over posts or hold my tongue. Sometimes though if I stay tuned I'll change my opinion about people.
ETA: I have over 5,000 posts. I am POSITIVE that someone (okay um... prob at least a few someones) don't like me. I can live with that :)
There's only one person (a bee) I've stopped following when one of her posts mentioned something that irritated me. Other than that, I don't avoid any other posters!
Yes, there are some that I don't particularly like. I know there are some that don't like my opinions or me for that matter.
I do not dislike any bees. I am sure there are some that dislike my posts because I tend to run contrary to popular opinion and I tend to be blunt. However, I would be lying if I said I lost any sleep over whether or not someone likes me. Between running a cat sanctuary,working, being on several board of directors, managing a home and spending times with hubs, I am too busy to care!
Definitely. I've only been on WB for a couple weeks, but I've already ran into a few bees who are irritating for various reasons. But that's to be expected when you group a bunch of women together. Oh well, I just grin and bear it and try to enjoy everyone else.
Yes, and I'm sure there are those that would rather skip over me. I'm guilty of whining far too much on these boards! Hopefully soon the bees will see more than just whining from me!
For me, only one specific poster. But most of the ladies on here are really sweet and funny.
yes...i was actually just thinking this not long ago. omg, if so and so is like this on the interwebs, i can't imagine having to put up with her in real life. LOL
Yup there are a couple who just irk me. I won't mention names but man a couple Bees really know how to lay on the snarkiness.
Well I don't really like bees ... ha j/k! Ok, not about real bees. Those things are no fun.
Inserting paranoia phase now. Realizing that I don't post enough to have that many haters. Breathing sigh of relief.
All that irks me about posters is when things are grammatically incorrect. But being an editor, I was born to hate that. But I make mistakes too, so I shake my head and go on reading about weddings and ideas that I could maybe, one day, use at my own.
Yes! I will click on a thread with a topic/title that didn't appeal to me just because I like the bee who posted it and want to see what's going on with her, but on the other hand, I also skim over stuff (or maybe click on a thread just to chuckle to myself then close) because there are some posters whom I know I will just never agree with. But then again, I am certain that I am on at least a few other bee's shit lists. :P
Yeah, a couple people. I guess I get annoyed by the posters who need validation for every single decision they make.
@beekiss2: I can handle a long post if it is in paragraphs. A wall of text? It doesn't matter which bee posted it; I'm not reading it!
I sometimes find myself wishing I could be as intuitive and thorough as some bees are. There are a couple that continually impress me with their helpfulness to others. That's probably what got me so addicted to WB in the first place. :) And... a few I notice that like to throw in that "shock the thread" comment just to shake things up. I guess it's about the same ratio of attitudes that you'd find in real life.
I don't dislike anyone here, but I tend to not post alot either... I don't think anyone likes me here or other wedding sites though, I've tried multiple wedding sites and hardly anyone replies to my posts, or anything like that. and 2/4 of the ones I have tried, I got bashed on for my opinions and what-not...so I just tend to not post because of that reason.
@XxMyXxDecemberXx: from what I hear, this is the only nice wedding site out there. The other ones seem to exist just for the sole reason to bash other women. And I highly doubt no one likes you here!
There's just one person I dislike that posts on any semblance of a regular basis. There's a few people who I think offer insightful and different views- and I really like those Bees.
I used to follow almost all of the blogging bees, but the more clear the vision gets for our own wedding, the less I follow the bloggers whose vision doesn't help inspire me in some way. Except for Mrs. Sewing whom I have nothing in common with but am so in awe of her talents that I gobble up every post. As for bees on the boards, I've certainly figured out some people's personalities and know what to expect, but there's only a select few who actually irk me. At first I was really concerned about people liking me, but then I got over it and figured people would rather you be real. We need opinions on all sides, don't we?
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