Post # 1
…Even if they have already RSVPed?
This is a little off-topic for me, as it has more to do with ‘friends,’ but there are two people I’m hoping will not attend. I won’t lose any sleep if they do show up, nor will I cry if they don’t.
So, are you hoping someone is more interested in going out to dinner with friends than going to your wedding?
Post # 3
yeah… my Step Mother-In-Law and her cousins..
Post # 4
@CookieCreamCakes: yes! I felt like I had to invite this person because I was invited to hers…ugh.
Post # 5
OMG YES… my FI’s crazy cousin who posts racist crap on FB and is a drunk and an addict. I was leaning against even inviting him, but his mother and sister are both invited, plus he did behave himself at his sister’s wedding. But I would be so relieved if he rsvped no.
Post # 6
I didn’t want my step-grandma to come, and she didn’t.
Post # 7
My BIL. Didn’t know until the day of if they were coming or not. He showed up. Ruined the day for my Father-In-Law.
Post # 8
My sister and her family. They threw a tantrum over my first date I picked after I started planning already – it conflicted with them. We secretly changed the date – they don’t know. I’m pretty sure they aren’t getting an invite yet after them lashing out at us over the entire ordeal.
Post # 9
My cousin, her husband and their daughter that I can’t stand. They’ve made some very degrating comments about a mentally ill aunt who passed away a few years ago, stating that she was “embarassed to call her her aunt.” After she said that I told her I was embarassed to call her my cousin.
Post # 10
- Wedding: May 2013 - Kempinski San Lawrenz, Gozo
one of my colleagues. had to invite her because i’m inviting everyone else in our team. and FI’s grandfather and his bitchy girlfriend.
Post # 11
My Fiance and i would be thrilled if his step mother and her daughters didn’t attend, they’re like 3 poisonous witches when they’re together!!!! we know we’ll have no such luck as his dad’s mission in life is to keep her happy, even if it means letting down his own children.
Post # 12
YES. This is this one co-worker I invited out of courtesy (everyone else in the office was being invited) and she is just a rude, bad-mood, judgey person. The wedding is almost 3 hours out of town and her and I are not close – I figured there was no way she would accept.
Post # 13
Yes, 25% of the people we are inviting – I wanted, we’ve budgeted for 100 and we somehow have 150 on the list! But only the people I don’t know personally (like the 14 former COLLEAGUES/their wives of my FFIL) + random family of my Fiance who he never ever sees.
Post # 14
– FI’s aunt’s husband and their two kids (the aunt can come, but the other three should probably just stay home)
– FI’s cousin’s husband
– My mother and her boyfriend
– My younger cousin
– My other cousin’s husband
– My other (older) cousin’s family
Post # 15
Yup, my step mother – she’s nuts. Oh but she’ll be there, with bells on I’m sure.
Post # 16
Certain family friends on my SO’s side. They’re obnoxious, stuck up, and racist. If you’re not rich, white and Jewish, you’re not worth their time. Same goes for FSFIL but I know there’s no way he won’t be there, so I may as well resign myself to that and not blissfully dream.