Post # 1
i think it’s really sweet when someone you love loves what you consider to be a “flaw”. For me it’s my hair. I have naturally curly/wavy hair but I hate it so I always straighten it. My SO thinks that when my hair is curly it’s the best thing ever though which makes me feel better about myself.
is there anything you don’t care for about yourself that your SO likes?
Post # 3
I am right there with you on the curly hair issue. I straighten my hair at every chance and rarely wear it curly. My FI loves the way it looks when I just let it dry with not product in it. Its not frizzy but its not evenly curly, its a little more wavy toward my scalp so to me it look horrible. He likes that and when I am all bundled up, especially in camo when I’m hunting with my dad and ugh i look not hot when I am hunting.
Post # 4
YES…my butt, heh. i hate it, think it’s covered in cellulite and is shapeless, he just thinks it’s my best feature. i really don’t get it.
and i am so jealous of you ladies and your curly hair…for years i got perms because i wanted curls and had stick straight hair! i guess the grass is always greener. :/
Post # 5
My butt too! My husband absolutely loves it!
Post # 6
my tummy… haha i hate it, but FI says that no matter what, he thinks I should always have a little bit of tummy, that it’s better to lay his head on. And i’m with you, veg… the butt thing, i don’t understand, i don’t have a particularly good one but i guess to each his own, right? lol.
Post # 7
I think I hardly have one, but he loves it! (THANK GOD!)
Post # 8
LOL…i feel like i need to show FI this thread so he can stop giving me sh!+ whenever i tell him i don’t get what he sees in my butt…glad to see i’m not alone!
Post # 9
My lips…I was teased mercilessly my whole life about my big lips. I am learning to appreciate them but my FI appreciated them right off the bat…LOL. My smile was the first thing he said he noticed.
Post # 10
tummy here too. Every time I talk about wanting to lose weight at ALL, he is like, “noooooooooooo”
…pretty messed up, IMO, haha. BUT it has done wonders for my self esteem 🙂
Post # 11
I can also agree with the tummy thing. i think my body sucks but he says it’s perfect.
Post # 12
I think its my weight in general…I was telling my FI that I want to lose about 50lbs but he was like no way…cut that in half because i like you jus the way you are…I was like oooooooookkkkkkkk…lol but it does make me feel great that someone loves me regardless of my flaws…
Post # 13
@Sharron04 I’m right there with you. I told FI I was going on a strict diet once this new year comes cause I hated my tummy. And his response was that he loved me the way I was and loved my curves and tummy. Crazy man!
Post # 14
My crooked smile. I am dreading seeing my wedding pics after August 14!