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Seriously. My dad emailed me, he had a crap day. My sister emailed, she had a crappier day. DH came home in a foul mood, berated someone on the phone before dinner, was in an even crappier mood after that, and then took it out on me and picked a fight while trying to help me put wallpaper on my bookcase (which turned into a huge disaster because he wouldn't listen to me and now I might just have $40 of ruined wallpaper, awesome). So now he's in bed, I'm pissed off and likely going to sleep on the couch tonight because the man doesn't know when to admit he's been an ass and apologize and I really don't feel like being in bed with him. My day was fine but apparently everyone else's crappy Monday needed to collide with me. What the heck is up with today!??!?!

No kidding! I can't believe what a jerk DH just was to me! He said I was being snarky to him, and I was explaining why I wanted to do something a particular way, not being rude, so apparently that gives him an excuse to just be downright mean?! Wtf?! I'm not okay with being the brunt of someone else's shit day. friggin jerk.

vent done. LOL!

@MissAsB: Ah no! How did you do that?

@firsttimemom: Add to the fact that he's a contractor and you've got a recipe for disaster. Worst part is when he told me he had literally done what I was doing earlier today. Halfway through he admits HE didn't do it, his guys did and he stopped by the job site and it looked good. Wtf?! That's not doing it yourself!!! That's not proof you know how to do this any better than me!!!! GRRRR!!! Literally, I have to start over tomorrow, but now I don't have an extra hand to smooth out the paper or flip over the damn unit. I'm so frustrated.

Way to go on your crib! Let me guess, you used these little pieces of paper called "instructions" and your DH didn't? Lol :P

@melodicsighs1: Street sweeping ticket?! What the heck is that?! I have to admit, I've had a headache on and off for 2 days now. I've just been attributing it to the weather.

@JeffsWifey: Awww thanks hon. Being hormonal sucks. You know you're being emotional for no reason but you can't stop it and it's SO frustrating!!! The best is when you just burst out with "I HAVE PMS JUST LEAVE ME ALONE!!!!!!!!!"

@MissAsB: Woah that's quite a throw :P

I'm seriously thinking about eating some cake just to end my day on a high note....

@JeffsWifey: LOL! The only thing that's stopping me is that it's the top layer of our wedding cake and I'm so annoyed with him that I don't want to touch it.

@trugem: If I wake him up, now hes just going to be an angry sleep jerk, not just an angry jerk, lol! Whatever. The man can sleep when he's angry, I've learned to live with it. We don't fight often, but when he picks a fight he has a habit of doing it in a spectacular way that leaves me with my jaw on the ground sometimes. He's the nicest most genuine guy, so when he's mean it just feels doubly as bad as it is I think from the contrast of it all. Whatever. Now I'm getting too sleepy to follow through with my resolve to sleep on the couch. I might go to bed....

@melodicsighs1: That's brutal! That would set my day off to a bad start too :( Have you complained to any local politicians about the ineffectiveness of this? It just seems like a waste of time, money and resources for no good reason!

@NDBee: Ooooh noooooo. That does not sound like fun :( You win for brutal Monday today especially because you'll have to lead up to that all week!!!

@HappilyEverAfter54: Me too! Although I don't see how it could get worse from the sounds of it for most people! LOL!

@trugem: Definitely not. You ever heard the phrase "Don't poke a sleeping bear"? That's my husband when he's grouchy. LOL!! Worst part is that I could see it coming when he came home. I knew he was going to pick a fight somehow.

@NDBee: Woah chickapea, that sounds pretty heavy! If it's something that big going on, why is it waiting until the weekend?!

@NDBee: Yuck. That really really sucks. I hope the conversation gets things ironed out for you all. Family drama is the worst. ((hugs))

@JediAshley: So sorry to hear of your loss. Sending you lots of ((hugs))

@NDBee: Ummm one great part of being a grown up is being able to put on your sweat and eat ice cream all day if you want to! Cake for breakfast? Sure! Who's going to stop you?! lol!!!

@MrsCoachBtoBee: Oh man. That's all just awful. I'm so sorry!!!! (((((hugs))))) I hope your grandparents and mom are okay. It sounds like you come from a family of fighters though. My grandmother had a brain aneurysm nearly 20 years ago that she somehow survived. She lost her filter for a good while, but she's still kickin' today! Sending lots of love and happy thoughts to you and your family hon.

@MrsCoachBtoBee: I'd like to say yes, but she just got meaner, lol!! My other grandma was the storybook grandma, the one that had the aneurysm was the one that made me cry all the time (both before and after) :P   Poor lady! I hate to say it, but she's pretty deep in Alzheimers now and it's the happiest I've ever seen her. She sits and hums and sings and talks about the old war days, she's very happy (and perhaps medicated...). No more hurled insults! But her resolve is strong, she made it through brain surgery, and she's physically better than I've seen her in years right now even if mentally she's in another place. The body is a bizarre thing to watch as it ages...

@MrsCoachBtoBee: Meh, we made it through it. It's just how she was, like it or not, lol! She could also be very well intentioned and generous, but she didn't always know that sometimes even saying something with good intentions could be hurtful (there's that loss of filter part). We just dealt with it ;) Thankfully my grandpa is pretty much the most awesome grandpa ever, so we got lots of counterbalance with him!