Is there such a thing as too laid-back?

posted 3 years ago in Logistics
Post # 3
11772 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2013

If you literally plan nothing until 10 days before your wedding and then don’t actually have a place for your ceremony, I would call that too laid back!

LLooking at the big picture instead of the details is just mellow. I was the same way!

Post # 4
8677 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2012

I had the same reaction from most of my vendors and wedding related people.

I really didn’t care what happened. I just wanted people to be happy, comfortable and to have a good time.

Post # 5
7630 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: January 2013

I think you’re fine! I wasn’t too fussed for details either, I just wanted to have fun and marry DH!

I remember visiting the florist at my MIL’s request. (I didn’t want flowers, she did.) They were asking me all these questions and I said “I don’t really care about flowers.” They actually gasped.

Post # 6
830 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

@renwoman:  Nah. It’s all good. Too many people stress out about the small things nowadays, who needs that!

Post # 7
1952 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

I find it kind of sad that so many brides stress themselves ill when it comes to their wedding day. No wedding planning goes without stress, but I tried very hard to be a very laid back person. I got weird looks and remarks like that comment you got when people asked questions and I gave them that response. I got stressed, definitely. My sister and my husband’s aunt going into hospital the week of our wedding is absolutely something to stress about. At the end of the day, the outcome is the same. You become a wife, he becomes a husband. I figured as long as that happened, no other small matter was relevant.

Good on you for being so laid back and stress free. However, I advise you do something so you aren’t a week out and forgetting about something like catering! Tongue Out

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