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Is this a cheapy favor or great idea?

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    sprusa6    June 2, 2012   Illinois

    Ok. So I am not a huge favor fan.  I love the idea of making a donation to a cause that is near to my fiance and I.  So, we are donating to the MS foundation (my brother-in law was diagnosed 6 months after he and my sister were married) and Austism Speaks (2 people in our wedding party have autistic children). 

    I am wanting to buy seed packets (10 for $1!) and make up a note of sorts with this saying "In honor of our family and friends that celebrated with us, a donation has been made to MS foundation and Autism Speaks.  Plant these seeds and spread the love."

    Is this completely cheap-o or do you think guests would appreciate this more than a random keychan or shot glass?

     
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    crayfish    September 11, 2010   Berkeley, CA

    I say just do the donation. Why spend more money on stuff people don't need? People don't need shot glasses or key chains, either...it seems like the need to give a favor has overwhelmed the common sense of not having more "crap" in the wedding world! Just do what is near and dear to your heart - the donation. People will appreciate it! Also, every time i've gotten seed packets at a wedding, they have never bloomed. They are likely not that high quality/have been sitting around forever in a warehouse and are past their prime!

     
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    vmec    May 12, 2012   Vancouver

    don't give a seed, just donate

     
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    MilksMom    June 23, 2012   Richmond, VA

    @sprusa6:  I disagree with PPs.  I think it's a great idea and will make the gift more tangible and thought provoking.  Maybe they even make puzzle-piece shaped seed packets, haha!!

     
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    mcklough    August 18, 2012   Oneonta NY

    I'd give them the packets too so that everyone knew it was happening, but that's just me. Also I think it's great

     
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    vmec    May 12, 2012   Vancouver

    I'm afarid they will be wasted. Yes the IDEA is sweet, but i can gaurentee 50% or more will either leave it on the table or throw them away at home.

     
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    Christina and Will    October 13, 2012   DC wedding in Lakeland, FL

    We're donating to the cancer society as our favor. We plan to write something up to put in frames on the tables or on the back of the escort cards. 

     
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    angarrett81    September 15, 2012   live in Hoboken / wedding in VA

    I love the idea.  I agree with a PP who said it makes the donation tangible and encourages people to think about it. 

     
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    kelmac    September 26, 2009   Ontario, Canada

    I really like the idea!

     
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    aliavenue    August 4, 2012   Kansas City

    I think its a great idea! I probably wouldn't plant them but, in this case, it really is the thought that counts.

     
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    kerensa    May 20, 2013   Ohio

    It sonds like ghe seeds are almost as cheap as just printing this message on nice cardstock!

    i probably wouldnt use this favor (since deer eat all my flowers anyway) but it could be cute.

     
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    cant.wait.to.be.mrs.d    November 10, 2012   Columbus, GA

    You could print the message on little cards that are made out of seed paper, so the actual note is planted.  My cousin did that for their favors and it grew the most beautiful wild flowers!

     

     
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    brenda.m.fields    March 3, 2012   Fort Lauderdale (wedding) & Gainesville (home)

    Sounds wonderful to me!

     
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    Ms. Meowerson    May 12, 2012  

    i don't think the seeds correlate to the donation at all....just do the donation

     
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    BerryBerry    December 20, 2012   Australia

    I would do it because it's 1: It's so cheep and 2: the idea is very beautiful. :)

    I think it's lovely and meaningful, and you never know, it might just make someone a little more aware of your causes.

     

     

     
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    MissTX    May 17, 2013   Texas

    Donation yes, seeds no. I don't know I just wouldn't use them.

     
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    beccybaby    March 5, 2013   NSW

    I think it is a beautiful, meaningful, heartfelt idea.

    Anyone who complains about something so sincere and genuine is saying more about themselves and their own selfishness than they are about you.

    I say do it! What an amazing idea, and what a beautiful way of incorporating your brother-in-law and your wedding party members.

     
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    sprusa6    June 2, 2012   Illinois

    Thanks for all the input!  I hadn't even thought about seed paper (not sure that would be as cheap as the packets?).  I'm forging ahead with this idea thanks to all the "thumbs ups" on here!  If the packets are left on the tables at least I can still use them and not have case of some random trinkets =) 

     
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    hotchildinthecity    June 12, 2010   New York, NY

    I would just do the donation and leave the seeds out.  They don't really have anything to do with the donation, and I would never use them.

     
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    abbie017    March 16, 2013  

    I agree, just do the donation.  Print up a nice little sign, put it on the tables or by the guest book, and leave it at that.  In all honesty, I'd leave the seed things there because, living in an apartment, I'd have absolutely no use for them.

     
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    Lorelei       Southern USA

    @sprusa6:  

    I wouldn't waste my money on seeds most people will toss in the trash----put up a nice sign if you are going to do that and call it a day.

     

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