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I really want people to be truthful! I was browsing around for Cake Toppers & came across one that caught my eye & that my Fiance & I HAD to have! I have a plump little rump & my Fiance LOVES it & is always grabbing it...haha...so it's kind of like our little inside joke...but then I think about our Grandparents & other loved ones that are going to be there & I kind of second guess myself. Anyways here it is & I really want it..what do the Bees think??!?! Oh yeah...I forgot to add that the Bride is also squeezing the Groom's butt...Ahhhh I love it....lol!!! :)
It's YOUR day! I understand you want to be respectful and such, but you said yourself. It fits you and your FI perfectly! I say go for it!
My FI is a butt grabber too. Unfortunately I think my Dad and Grampa would probably not be too happy if I chose this cake topper haha. But more power to ya! =)
If you point it the right way, I don't think anyone would even notice it. You are braver than I, my dad would pick up on that in a heartbeat and would not have been happy, but I do think it's funny.
if you have to ask I think you know the answer.
I think it is ok but I would never use it
I love it! If I saw that at a wedding, I would just laugh!! To be honest, most of your guests WON'T even notice, so it's not that big of a deal. :)
Perhaps to make it less obvious, just turn the butt grabbing to the back of the cake. :)
my grandma would think it was adorable, my gramps used to grab her butt all the time!
I will be honest I have never been to a wedding where I actually look at the cake topper lmao
@nycbrde2011: Exactly what I was thinking. I know the wedding in November had flowers, but I'm not positive it was the topper. My sister had sugar coated apples, I only remember that b/c I ate one of them (with their blessing).
I think it's really pretty, and not inappropriate at all. Like it's wayyyy tame compared to some.
Exhibit A:
i dont love it but i do not find it inapprorpriate at all - its sweet and cute and if you like it, get it!
That's nothing compared to some! Use it if you like it.
This, for example, is very confusing to me - why would you choose this?
That would be perfect for me actually. A better one would be the groom "goosing" the bride since my FH just LOVES doing this to me in public. Inappropriate, I know.
I think most people won't notice! If you're comfortable with it, definitely use it.
I didn't even notice until I read your post. That totally fits us, too! Where did you find it?
@FutureMrsTimmins: Exactly.
I think it's cute. We almost went with something similar but I didn't want to be the one to cause Grandma to have a heartattack (that's my brother's job) since she's super conservative. But then my mom wanted our favors to read " "Enjoy the whoopie, we'll have ours' later"
I didn't even notice the butt grabbing til you mentioned it! lol! Mine is way worse... it's the ones they used in Vegas commercials awhile back (similar to the one posted where the girl is jumping on the guy). You're pretty safe in my book!
I think it's totally funny, and it's pretty subtle, took me a minute to notice it. If you feel like folks might get pretty offended, you could always stick it on a groom's cake during the rehersal dinner. But I think it's funny and pretty tame compared to others. Good find!
I wish I'd seen this before my wedding, I'd have used it as an inside joke with my DH and I. And it would definitely have been an inside joke because I doubt anyone would notice. I know I've never noticed any of the toppers at any wedding I've been to.
You know, if you don't point out it's a bum-grab, how many people are going to notice it?
I can't find a picture of the back side, but I don't know that most people are going to look at it that closely, from all angles.
Someone I know used this topper:
I didn't find it all that amusing, and maybe telling of the sort of person the bride was... Oh well.
@Nola_bride: FI and I do this too, but we can't do it without yelling "GOOSE!" or at least whispering it loudly to the other. It's like our little game.
@lia22: Lol...I love that your Grandparents "Love Pinch"..... that's Awesome!! :)
@pokey_dc: It's going to be a 3 tier cake...but I am going to have some Fall flowers on top too...so I might arrange them where you can't really notice the "Love Pinching" unless you get REALLY close :)
@CarolinaCola: Lol...yeah I seen that one also....I agree..I t hink a little love pinching it way tamer than that! :)
i don't find it offensive. plus, it's a cake topper, i don't think i have ever been close enough to the cake during the cake cutting to ever see the cake topper at any wedding i have been to. and the rest of the night when i had opportunity to go up close and see it, well i guess that as a wedding guest, i didn't care enough to examine the cake topper and so the thought never crossed my mind to do so!
@KristenGotMarried: Ha....I haven't seen that one before... & I am wondering the same..Who would use that!?!?!? Lol :-0
@KarenA: It makes me feel a little relieved to know other couples would want the same cake topper...lol....if you type in Cheeky Couple Cake Topper in a Google or Bing Bar..a bunch of places will come up where they sell them..but I know for sure that David's Bridal has them!
@surkim: Yes...I would definitely say that Cake Topper says alot about the Bride...lol....I'm sry if there are people reading this that has used this cake topper...but I think it's awful...lol...poor Groom..haha!
Thank you Ladies!! I really loved getting outside opinions on my Cake Topper & I do believe I am going to have to use it....there were too many good responses than negative & it would be meaningful for my Fiance & I to use it...so I am going to order it...YAY!!! Thanks Bees!!! :)
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