Post # 1
Ok thats a bad pic, but I wanted to do this for the groomsmen, it is a glass etched with their initial and one shot in it. I wanted a bridesmaid to deliver it to my men before the wedding while we are all getting ready! Here is the question, my FI brother doesn’t drink, he has been sober for 7 years, would giving him a mini coke be embarressing to him, or awkward? He is around booze all the time, I just didn’t want it to be weird? Opinions!
Post # 3
i wouldnt single him out– can all the groomsmen have a soda instead of the shots?>
Post # 4
Why not do a food gift instead of an alcohol gift? One shot glass is kind of useless later on down the road unless the owner is happy to drink alone, and then there’s the awkward situation of the GM who doesn’t drink. Maybe get them each a monogrammed stadium bag type thing— those little coolers that hold a few sandwiches or a 6-pack of soda/beer— and fill it with nice things to eat while they are getting ready. Saves any awkward moments plus is infinitely more useful after the wedding.
Any time you single someone out, you risk it being uncomfortable for them.
Post # 5
I think I would just give them the glasses as the gift. I’m sure if any of them are planning on drinking before, then they will have brought something with them 🙂
Post # 6
That is true, I dont want ANYONE to feel weird or singled out 🙂