Post # 1
so i recently found out that my fiance’s sister didnt want to be a bridesmaid her exact words were “she should have someone who cares about her and her about them in it” NICE lol
it all started when i asked her personally if she wanted to be a bridesmaid, she agreed and sounded what i thought was sincere and excited, when i scheduled a dress fitting for my girls she agreed but then had to cancel because she was getting her boobs done, i wanted all my bridesmaids there it was supossed to be a fun and girly kind of day so i went out of my way to change it for two weeks after her surgery! i gave the girls 1 month notice of the day and place and periodically checked in to remind them since we are all working girls!! she agreed to the date and all…. well then after her surgery she decided to throw herself a “NEW BOOB PARTY”…. and planned it for a sunday not just to give you an idea of how my week is well mon-fri i work from 3 am -5:30 pm i also have a wonderful soon to be step daugther who is 6 and has school well i couldnt make it. I did apologize i also got her a card and gift card to victoria secrets and i explained everything and why i couldnt make it.
well a week went by and i reminded the girls yet again and she never responded, so i waited till the friday before we were going and again never responded so finally i brought my fiance into it. well turns out she fabricated this entire lie saying i personally told her that i felt obligated to put her in the wedding when in reality i dont do anything out of obligation and my fiance didnt even want her in it!!! ugh needless to say i gave her another chance after sending a very long and well thought out text to her childish argumentive text messages explaining everything yet again!!! IS THIS REALLY ABOUT ME NOT GOING TO YOUR BOOB PARTY!!!!!!!!!!!!
i havnt recieved a response and its been nearly 10 days so does this mean i choose another person so i text her again but if i do i feel like im begging her to be in my wedding i think she is being childish funny part about it is she is older then i and has her masters in psychology!!!! ummmmmmmm
i need input guys!
Post # 3
Is this all over text? I think you need to call her and have a conversation.
Post # 4
@Sking: I agree. Call her.
Post # 5
Wait… she threw herself a new boob party???? Oooookay.
but, yes, I’d call her and talk to her.
Post # 6
Calling = way better than texting
Post # 7
SHUT UP…who throws themselves a new boob party and then throws a tantrum when someone can’t make it (but still very generously sent a gift)?
You need to talk to her live and have your FI involved. You don’t have time to play child games with her.
Post # 8
Sorry I’m still cracking up over the boob party, immature I know…
But yeah I would call her and just settle it once and for all, in or out, no big deal either way.
Post # 9
well i did call her that was the first thing i attempted twice, left two messages and she texted her brother and asked him to breakfast she needed to have a family talk when he said ok well can stacy(me) come on her break. his sister said ” no this is family” ive been with him and i have helped him raise his daughter(he has 80 percent custody) for nearly 5 yrs!!!!!!!!!
and ya she did everytime i talk about this i laugh because ive never heard a “new boob party”
Post # 10
You win for best title of the week!
Post # 12
i like said in privious comment, i did call and she refused to answer with even a F U so when she text messaged me i did respond back via txt what else was i supossed to do i left two messages!!! and the text messages i sent prior was a mass message regarding dress shopping and reminders so it was harmless!!!
Post # 13
Last I checked one’s breasts were not cause for celebration, no matter how magnanimous they may be. And I wouldn’t know where to begin to get a gift for such a party. Did she get a cake too? Weird. But anywaaaayyy…
Clearly this your FSIL is more than a little self-involved. I think this needs to be discussed face to face rather than over the phone- it’s harder to ignore people or hang up when they’re sitting in your living room. And despite her clearly odd priorities I would stick to the bridesmaids issues rather than her chesty parties.
Post # 14
Boob party?! What do those invitations look like?
Post # 15
A Boob party?! For real?? I’ve heard of bra fitting parties but not “I got new jugs so come and see them!” parties LOL
I definatly think you need to call her, and if she’s planning to be that childest about her, leave her out of all the details. Just tell you FI and tell her that she can come if she’d like too and that’s it.
Post # 16
I would just ask her to step down.