(Closed) Is this enough for my BM?

posted 6 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
3798 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2018

This seems very reasonable.  Remember in the UK it’s traditional for the bride to pay all costs for the bridesmaids.  But it’s becoming more common to do the contribution you have mentioned.  And she should be able to get something brilliant for £80!  🙂

Post # 4
444 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: January 2012

Seems very reasonable!

Post # 6
3264 posts
Sugar bee

@ticatica: I think it is lovely to want to include your friend in the celebration.  I would say though, that it is better to gift someone with something that doesn’t directly benefit you.  Paying for the hair is nice, but it is your benefit that they get it done.  I would include a small gift that is strictly for use after the wedding.



Post # 8
3264 posts
Sugar bee

@ticatica: Yes something just for her.  Like a gift card to some place, or wine, or something that suits her interest.

It just doesn’t seem like much of a gift to give someone something that is for your benefit.

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