Is this group message okay to send to our procrastinating guests?

posted 3 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
10748 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2014

How annoying! I think your message is fine.

Post # 4
2565 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

If it is past the RSVP deadline and people have not sent it back you need to contact each person individually, not in a mass Facebook message.  When you contact them about the RSVP you can remind them about the hotel situation.  For those that have already RSVPd and not booked a room, that is their problem.  

Post # 5
43300 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@FutureMrsLAL:  You are going to have to contact them individually anyhow to confirm their attendance  so why not mention the hotel at that time?

Post # 6
1560 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

@FutureMrsLAL:  Send it! I feel your pain right now, how hard is it to RSVP???? Grrr….

Post # 7
2642 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I wonder if they consider their verbal yes as an RSVP.  If they keep telling you they are coming they might not think they have to RSVP.  If your deadline has passed I’d call each guest unit and get confirmation and remind them the block expires on the 5th.  I wouldn’t send a mass fb message – it has the potential to get lost in the mix.



Post # 8
2299 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

What a pain!! I’d say send the message, and then contact those who you don’t hear from that way individually.

Post # 9
1460 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

I would put more of a sense of urgency there, so they know that there’s no time to waste. It isn’t about the RSVP as much as booking the room on a strict timeline

Post # 10
1590 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

I think it’s perfect. There’s a slight chance they chose to book their hotel rooms another way  but they would just be able to respond and tell you that. (my friend did it cheaper with than the block)

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