(Closed) Is this post TACKY??

posted 8 years ago in Weddingbee
  • poll: is my post tacky??
    yes : (26 votes)
    36 %
    no : (35 votes)
    48 %
    i will reserve my opinion for myself :) : (12 votes)
    16 %
  • Post # 3
    1385 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: July 2010

    I love @Magenta I think Tacky should be banned along with the word Bridezilla :o)

    Post # 4
    461 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: May 2010

    I am SO GUILTY! HAHA.  Not online but in real life.

    acc to dictionary.com….tacky means:


    not tasteful or fashionable; dowdy.

    shabby in appearance; shoddy: a tacky, jerry-built housing development.

    crass; cheaply vulgar; tasteless; crude.

    gaudy; flashy; showy.
    I only thought it meant the third one or the fourth.  Tacky get sso overused and you never know which of the above meanings the sayer actually means.
    Yeah maybe you’re right about not using it at all!

    Post # 6
    2280 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: April 2011

    From what I hear, the word “tacky” was taboo around here at one point! I’m all for reinstating that!

    By the way, your post is oh-so tacky. I look down my nose at you, Magenta. ๐Ÿ˜›

    Post # 7
    461 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: May 2010

    ooooh yes bridezilla is a horrible word.  now you can’t say anything you don’t want without it being a bridezilla comment, i totally agree w the haters of that word!

    Post # 8
    5263 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: June 2012

    Oh man, hands down, the most overused word on the Bee. It gets so old

    Post # 9
    8353 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: March 2011

    Love this post!!!

    We are planning; well me mostly, our wedding the way we want it. If people think it is tacky, too bad. We want what we want and no one is going to change our minds. Tacky or not ๐Ÿ™‚

    Post # 11
    3285 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: November 2009

    Hah! So true…tacky is tacky.

    Post # 12
    214 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: March 2010

    Can I say Amen! 

    I hate when people use the word “tacky”! My wedding isn’t “Tacky” and neither is yours! It may be different but that is ok! 

    Tongue out


    I am all in favour in not using tacky!

    Post # 13
    554 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: November 2010

    Go @magenta! “only bridezillas use the word tacky” ๐Ÿ™‚

    Post # 14
    2397 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: May 2010

    I agree. Definitely an overused word. 

    And since I can’t resist…

    Post # 15
    2250 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: March 2018

    Sometimes it applies. I think calling someone’s style choice tacky is rude. That being said inappropriate attire/behavior- it is the perfect label!


    “and then the bridesmaid barfed on the grooms grandma” – tacky

     “it was a good thing the brides thong matched because everyone could see it” –tacky

    see photo below. –tacky

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    Post # 16
    2765 posts
    Sugar bee

    We do see posts where hive members ask others, “Is this tacky?”  I think that’s totally fine.

    The challenge is when one person posts about something and another commenter says, “That is tacky.”  That’s a value judgement and sometimes a personal attack, and not cool at all.

    We’re not in the habit of banning words… but if someone uses the word “tacky” in a the second way (i.e. as a personal attack) and it’s flagged, we’ll definitely consider deleting the comment!

    Personal attacks happen pretty rarely though, which is a testament to the community!

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