Is this rude?

posted 3 years ago in Family
  • poll: is t rude to ask my in law not to post our wedding pictures to the internet?
    rude : (5 votes)
    5 %
    not rude : (90 votes)
    95 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    6525 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: September 2013

    @00rubyred:  not rude at all. I totally get not wanting YOUR business for the world to see.

    My SIL tells me all the time to pls not post pictures of her kids on Facebook, and I respecr that bc they are HER kids.

    Post # 4
    Member
    42538 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: November 1999

    It is not rude to request that they do not post the pics online. If you think  they will disregard your request, you could tell them that the photographer allowed you to share the flash drive, but you do not own the rights to post the pics online.

    Post # 5
    Member
    6048 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: March 2012

    You can request it … he may not listen 😀 

    Post # 6
    Member
    689 posts
    Busy bee

    Send the photos w/ the very explicit message that they are not to post them anywhere online. It’s rude to do that w/o your permission, not rude of you to say not to. 

    Post # 7
    Member
    7216 posts
    Busy Beekeeper
    • Wedding: November 1999

    @00rubyred:  No. There is some debate over this if he took the photos. But since they’re your photos, you can set the rules.

    p.s. I strongly recommend that your new husband asks, since it is his father.

    Post # 8
    Member
    2224 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: August 1987

    Your request for privacy is understandable and 100% reasonable.

    Post # 9
    Member
    5295 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: April 2013

    Not rude at all. This is the exact reason i did not give my mother the cd from our wedding cause i know all the pics i hate would end up online! I made her an album and any lictures from that she liked i sent to her 

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