(Closed) Is this rude?

posted 7 years ago in Accessories
Post # 3
2701 posts
Sugar bee

I am a sucker for gifts and literally keep everything I receive because I am so incredibly astonished and grateful for any gift I receive. I have this weird creepy cat statue my own crazy grandma gave me and I refuse to get rid of it…

In your situation thought, I don’t think she is overly attached to it, obviously since she bought for herself and then gave it to you. She has already committed the ultimate gifting faux paux so I would get something you want.

If it were me, it would have already been stashed away for years to come, collecting dust haha.

Post # 4
1701 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

shelf it

Post # 5
6394 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

Umm, I think I would return it in this situation. It’s technically rude, but kind of warranted :).

Post # 6
5110 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 2011

If your not going to wear it and your not going to meet her then I would get something that you will wear. No sense putting it on a shelf and letting it collect dust.

Post # 8
4653 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

Return it and get something you want and will wear But will she be comming to the wedding? she might expect you to be wearing it…

Post # 9
9824 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper

Well, it was nice of her to send you something. Just keep it and break it out one day if you ever do meet her.

Post # 10
1458 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2015

She didn’t even buy it with you in mind, so I think she would understand if you returned it for something you actually like.

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