(Closed) Is this rude of me?????

posted 8 years ago in Gifts and Registries
Post # 3
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2010

That’s a fine plan – but remember you can use the money for “stuff”, too! I would actually prefer that – ten I can prioritize for myself what I want most.

Post # 5
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2010

Why can’t you use the money to buy the “stuff” you need?

Post # 7
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 1969

For some reason it seems like your guests aren’t feeling the target and BB&B registries.  Maybe those stores aren’t conveniently located for them or something, so I think adding a walmart registry is a good idea.  Also, while it’s rude to put registry info on a wedding invitation, it’s perfectly acceptable to put it on a shower invitation, since that’s the whole point of the shower.

Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

I don’t think it’s rude to have 3 registries, especially if it’s to make gift buying easier on guests.

Post # 9
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

Don’t think it’s rude, but as a side note considering talking to the bank and seeing if they can remove some of those overdraft charges. Often they will. Just let them know you’re a customer in good standing and this was an honest mistake.

Post # 10
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Sugar bee

You’re definitely fine, especially with the stores you picked.  If you picked three all high end stores, it might be a different story.

Post # 11
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2011

I don’t have a good feeling about registries personally (it feels weird to pick stuff out for people to buy for me). However, I know that guests do like to be able to buy something that you would want, so I know that is appreciated.

Are you upset about the money in the cards, but you would rather want “stuff” that potentially costs more than $20?

 

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