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    Ngolden1    August 22, 2010   Albany, NY

    I was thinking of playing "one love" by Bob Marley, for our recessional.  Then I talked to my DJ about it and he said something like, "well you wouldn't want the actual song", and I was like ohhh.... Then I'm thinking, maybe that is too weird. What do you think? My friend was going to play the guitar and sing it, or play the guitar along with the instrumental version.  Now I'm not sure what to do. I like non-traditional, but now I'm second guessing.

     
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    speulie    December 29, 2011  

    Do what makes you happy, don't let the DJ decide that for you!

     
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    Redeemed Rebekah    May 8, 2010   Ont, Canada

    I think that song would be fine! To me a recessional is suppost to be fun and an expression of who you are. we walked out to "Slide" by the Goo Goo Dolls... talk about non traditional. I say go for it!

     
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    Edina    June 2010  

    Agree with PP's. What was his reasoning for saying that?

     
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    KellyV    September 12, 2009   New York, NY

    Our recessional was the piano version of Ozzy Osbourne's Crazy Train.  My little cousin knew how to play it and we thought it set a fun mood for the reception.  Who cares if your DJ doesnt like it, I say go for the instrumental version :)

     
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    Jennifer5642    December 11, 2010   Knoxville, TN

    Right now, we're planning to use Natalie Cole's "This Will Be (An Everlasting Love)", BUT I've recently fallen in love with Sugarland's "Stuck on You," so we may change our minds. Either way, most of our music is non-traditional and that's becoming more and more common. Do what you want and have fun with it!

     
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    littlemissmoo    July 18, 2010   London, UK

    Do whatever you want! We walked out to "All Dressed Up In Love" by Jennifer Hudsen. It's your decision!

     
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    Mrs.MedinaJr    November 11, 2011   Houston

    I say do whatever your want. My FI wants to play "Funky Cold Medina" as our first song... I said no then I said that would be kinda cool!

     
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    His Barista    September 4, 2010   Spokane, WA

    If you want to use it, go ahead! It's a fun way to get everything going!

    We are using "Today was a Fairytale" by Taylor Swift. = )

     
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    Superstitions    July 25, 2009   TX

    Go with whatever makes you happy. My husband and I walked out to "I'll Cover You" from RENT. Our first choice was "To the End" by My Chemical Romance, but we had complaints. I still regret not just going with it. Never let someone talk you out of what you really want when it comes to your wedding.

     
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    Ngolden1    August 22, 2010   Albany, NY

    Thanks everyone. I do really want to use it because I think the song has a good message, and my mom is a huge Bob Marley fan so it will be a nice surprise for her. Thanks for the reassurance!

     
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    Pilotsgirl09    April 2011  

    I think you're idea is great!!! Do it!! Your DJ should have the professional tact to know when to shut it, and especially when it's about something that isn't even a bad idea!!

     
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    staceynrick    September 24, 2011   Cincinnati, OH

    Ouch! Have you thought about getting a different DJ? Seriously, you should do what you think is right for you and your FI. I wouldn't let anyone tell you what was weird or not. Even if it is weird (in some people's opinions) it will at least be memorable and not blend with the 50+ other weddings they go to in their life!! Silly DJ... he doesn't know what he's talking about.

     
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    KTseamans    October 10, 2010   New York

    Wedding is about you and your love,, If that song sums it up and makes you feel good go for it! I am using yellow by coldplay to walk back down the isle !

     
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    stephinPA    October 29, 2010   Reading, PA

    I think the DJ was out of line a little.  You do what you want.  We are actually thinking of when our officiant pronounces us husband and wife and thekiss, that we'll have the chorus to "Joy to the World" by Three Dog Night playing.  Funny and cute!

     

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