Is this strange for me to think?

posted 2 years ago in Dress
Post # 2
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7208 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

TheAnonyMouse:  No you’re not bonkers and it is a totally reasonable request. Photos get over-shared too easily these days.

Remember, though, that your mother is excited about the wedding too! Perhaps as a compromise, you could say she can show photos to people who won’t be at the wedding (e.g. her work colleagues or friends) but she can’t email/send photos to anyone.

Post # 3
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7410 posts
Busy Beekeeper

Another thing to keep in mind is that a dress looks different on than it does in a photo or on a model in a photo.

Also whilst these details are important to you because it is your wedding most people who ask are doing so out of politeness (because it is polite to ask someone about things going on in their life) and will likely forget the details. 

A lot of brides get caught up in the wedding machine (and cause themselves so much un needed stress) and forget how little other people are concerned about the details. They are just happy for and with you about your upcoming marriage- the details not so much.

Post # 4
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1119 posts
Bumble bee

TheAnonyMouse:  I thought keeping the dress secret was normal.  Only 4 people have seen mine and are all sworn to secrecy 🙂 we’re keeping other little bits and pieces secret too but not much 

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