Is this too close for siblings weddings

posted 3 years ago in Logistics
Post # 3
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317 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

September would be just fine, even early October depending how many out of town guests you have. 

Post # 5
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

In my opinion, which may be different from others, so long as it’s not a week before their wedding I would say it’s fine for friends and a month for siblings would be okay.

The best thing to do would to have a very open conversation about it to your brother and his fiance to know how they feel about it because that’s what matters most. I definitely wouldn’t want to schedule a wedding right before my siblings’ if it had any chance of upsetting them. If they are okay with it then go for it, if not you can work it out.

 

Post # 6
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

2 months is perfect. There’s no rule that first couple engaged needs to be first to get married. What if they wanted a 2 year engagement and you wanted to elope immediately? Planning a sibling wedding with 2 months in between is more than courteous. 

Post # 8
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

@monique_w:  I admire and commend you on the fact that you are being so considerate of your boyfriend’s brother. I think you are totally fine to do it as long as it’s not within the month. I know other bees will tell you “you only get one day” but to be considerate of family you should never pick the same month. So, I think you are fine by putting a little more space in between!

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