(Closed) Is this unreasonable?

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
847 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

I think you are right for wanting to know more. I don’t understand why she was being so short and vague with you. To me that is somewhat rude. Even if it is just a text message, you are still talking to another person and should be respectful. And she should not have gotten upset about anything!

Post # 4
1043 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

WOW…  apparently it’s your FSIL’s world and you just live in it.  Hopefully she fixes her attitude before the wedding.  Yikes!

Post # 5
501 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

Call her instead of text to resolve the issue.

Post # 6
11172 posts
Sugar Beekeeper

I am a planner and people that think they can drop plans into my lap without a consideration of other things I might have lined up drive me crazy. I know that not everyone will agree or lives their life that way but I do.

I think you are being perfectly reasonable to expect a certain amount of lead time when it comes to giving up your entire day. I wouldn’t be able to accomodate a request like that at the last minute and she shouldn’t expect you to either.

Post # 7
2239 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

So basically, to me, that translated as “you will be here at x amount of time until the shop closes.”  Not…will you come?  Who does that, lol.  I think you are perfectly right about wanting more info and she can’t not ask you and just boss you.  Sheesh

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