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Is "Tiny Dancer" too creepy for a Father-daughter dance song?

posted 2 years ago in Music
  • poll: Is "Tiny Dancer" appropriate for a Father-Daughter dance?
    Yes, rock on sista : (5 votes)
    19 %
    Nope, too creepy: "hold me closer" "softly, slowly" : (21 votes)
    81 %
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    lisalulu    September 19, 2009   Santa Barbara,CA

    Hi bees!

    I am a ballet/modern dancer and I teach and perform professionally. I thought a nice song for a father/daughter dance might be "Tiny Dancer." But there's that line "No one here, lying here beside you" and something like "And I said softly, slowly" hmmm..."Hold me closer tiny dancer, count the headlights on the highway"

    I think father daughter dances are kind of inherently creepy but I guess that I have to do it. (My dad would be hurt if I skipped it). I would really love to choreograph something cool, but my father is a man 6'2", rather large 220-240lbs I think and not that light on his feet.

    Any thoughts, suggestions?

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    ChrissyM    9/5/09   NJ

    Funny you asked this, I've been debating the exact same question... I'm also a dancer and when I was a kid I performed a dance to that song that my dad really loved, so the song has special meaning for us. But even after reading through the lyrics I can't quite decide for sure exactly what it's about or whether it's inappropriate! 

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    bellenga    July 31, 2010   Georgia

    I vote no.  My mother was a dance teacher and I took for about 20 years.  That song is not about a friendship or relationship appropriate for a father daughter.

    How about something and choreographed?  Know you can 'swing' that right?

    good fun song if you want to get things moving:

    Dancin' in the Streets

    and here are 10 more sentimental classics (voted on by dads for father daughter dances):

    http://fatherhood.about.com/od/daughersanddads/a/wedding_songs.htm

    Two which might work for you well from this list are Frank Sinatra's version "The Way you Look Tonight" and "Unforgettable" duet by Natalie/Nat King Cole.  Either of these would be gorgeous with a touch of choreography! 

     
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    GaBGal    September 25, 2010  

    I voted "no" simply because I feel the song isn't quite appropriate. The "tiny dancer" part is nice but not so much the rest.

     
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    lisalulu    September 19, 2009   Santa Barbara,CA

    Thanks for the help bees! It probably isn't quite appropriate. My mother wants me to do Lionel Ritchie's "Ballernia Girl." I am considering it though it is quite possibly one of the cheesiest songs of all time.

    The way you look tonight by Frank Sinatra just might be better. :)

     
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    mouse    September 11, 2009   Austin, TX

    Hmm, I don't think it's that creepy.  The one line that gets me is "now she's in me, always with me."  Yeah, it's a close one.  Probably no one will be listening to the lyrics, but if it's going to bother you, then I say go with something else.  What a shame, though!  Elton John is the best.  :)

     
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    thecolorteale    June 5, 2010 ...yeah we changed it a 3rd & final time.   Chattanooga, TN

    A really good father daughter song is "Turn Around" by Harry Belafonte.

    It's very touching, and nice and slow for your dad who is already a big guy, but then is going to have a lot of emotions effecting him then too.

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