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Is your fiancee the best lover you've ever had?

posted 2 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: Do you have the best sex you've had in your life with your current fiance, husband or BF?
    Yes, the best EVER! : (308 votes)
    60 %
    One of the best : (103 votes)
    20 %
    Sex is ok with my him, but I've had way better sex with others : (81 votes)
    16 %
    He's not very good in bed, but he makes up for it in so many ways : (19 votes)
    4 %
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    cherryblossombee    August 20, 2011  

    Let's be honest girls! I think this will be interesting.

     
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    babyboo      

    He's only the second guy I've ever been with and he is most definitely better than the first. So I vote for BEST EVER!!

     
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    ejs4y8    June 20, 2009  

    Definitely the best, but only because I don't have anyone to compare him to, lol. I haven't slept with anyone else.

     
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    marjojo    July 24, 2010   Nashville

    I'm with ejs4y8. I haven't been with anyone else either. You should add that to the poll as an option.

    Even though I have no one to compare him to, I have a hard time imagining how anyone else could be better!

     
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    lilyfaith    June 23, 2012   Lakeview, Chicago

    He's my one and only, too!

     
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    tammyt112    May 29, 2010  

    I've actually never experienced an orgasm until I met him, woohoo!

     
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    Miss Sydney    September 3, 2011   Sydney, Australia

    @babyboo - same as me!

    Definately the BEST EVER!!!

     
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    OttawaBride2011    May 21, 2011   Ottawa, Ontario

    I voted BEST EVER!!! :) He's my 3rd, and the only one that has ever cared if I enjoyed myself. It's awesome!

     
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    ginandtonic    July 31, 2010   Bristol, RI

    He's so good that I sometimes feel guilty taking him off the market since no one else will be able to enjoy him from now on.

    But that feeling of guilt usually passes pretty quickly :)

     
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    Neva    July 2010  

    Definitely the best.  Sometimes, I tease him that that is the real reason I'm marrying him!

    Seriously, though, I really think it is the emotional connection that we share that makes it the best.  I've found that the sex keeps getting better as we become closer and closer.

     
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    Erisque    November 1, 2009   Baltimore, Maryland

    My boyfriend before my current husband was better in bed, but my husband is SO much better in other ways (and is more enthusiastic, which makes up for a lot).

     
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    Miss Hunky    July 10, 2010  

    He's only my second ever, but the first time was by far one of best sexual experiences ever! It was a pretty dumb question when my ex asked me "So who is better, me or him?" Do ya really wanna know?! Lol

     
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    MissAsB    June 6, 2009   Married in CO, Living in AL

    Mine is my first.

     
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    sulaii211      

    LOL The only reason I think I've had better sex elsewhere is be because it was ALWAYS make-up sex....but you can imagine how bad the relationship was.

     
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    Jenniphyr    February 2, 2013   Alberta, Canada

    I don't have a fiancee, I have a fiance (he's male), but since he's the only guy I've ever dated/slept with, I'd say he's pretty damn good. He's a little big for me, so sometimes it hurts, and I have issues with sex, but he's good.

     
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    Adira    October 3, 2009   New England

    haha, my husband is the only one I've slept with, so he's definitely the best ever to me!  But I have nothing to compare him to.  :P

     
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    jaylii9    September 5, 2010  

    I have only been with one other guy. The other guy was a great lover and so is FI. It's hard for me to say my FI is the best I ever had because the last guy was great too!

     
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    frugal_faye    June 6, 2010   Michigan and Illinois

    When we first slept together, I thought he was on paar with the other guys I'd dated, but as we stayed together longer it just got better and better.  Chemistry and really loving/knowing each other adds so much :)

     
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    damaskqueen    August 21, 2010  

    yes the best ever!! I agree with Neva

     
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    Rosie Girl    September 18, 2010   Montana

    I think part of the reason sex is so good with him, is because I have so many other feelings for him, its not just sex. I love it! :)

     
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    RoddyBride09    September 5, 2009   Bethlehem, PA

    I'm with Rosie Girl! He definitely is the best ever and he is only my 3rd.

     
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    clane616    May 7, 2011   Chicago; wedding in Florida

    No question that he's the best.  I think we are both each other's best. It was great before we were emotionally attached and has only gotten better since we fell in love and all of that...

     
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    JustlikeHeaven    March 6, 2009  

    Not the first (eeek Embarassed)  but def the BEST. Just feels right in so many ways.

     
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    amanda44    August 13, 2011   kalispell

    he only my second so i vote YES!!!!

     
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    sloth    May 14, 2011   Philadelphia, PA

    I'll be one of the first to admit that no, he is not.

    I have no complaints and always enjoy myself with the boy. In fact, I love it. But nobody can compare to this one guy who I dated when I was in my early 20's. That guy was SO GOOD that nobody in the past 15 years has measured up, sadly.

    (I would never, ever in a million years tell the boy this, though. Could you imagine?)

     
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    MrsSl82be    October 24, 2009  

    In almost every way he is the best, but there are one or two things about my ex that were different

     
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    stephinPA    October 29, 2010   Reading, PA

    FI definitely not my first...Innocent but I can tell you this - he is by far the best lover I've ever had.  I've experienced things with him that no other man has been able to do.  God bless him!  (lol!)

     
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    mrsmdphd    April 17, 2009  

    There's not really an option up there for me, because while I would definitely say he's the best, he's also the only person I've ever slept with...so I don't have anyone to compare him to.  :P

     
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    cherryblossombee    August 20, 2011  

    It's so fun to read these comments. Btw I didn't realize there so many of you that are marrying your first guy, that's so great!! should've I added that option... I feel bad that it didn't even ocurred to me lol

     
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    Blondee    August 24, 2012  

    He's definitely the best!

     
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    monitajb    July 17, 2010   Sacramento

    I'm with dana. I "dated" a guy for a few weeks who was AMAZING. But he also had the emotional maturity of a 14 year old. Seriously, I only lasted past the second date because he rocked my socks.

    IMO, compatability (in and out of bed) is much more important than raw skill, so it isn't as if I'm ever longing for immature dude.

     
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    lululemonade    February 14, 2012  

    He's definitely the best because I don't have anyone to compare him to haha. He's the only one I've ever slept with and vice versa ( :

     
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    cbee    July 26, 2010  

    FI is the best ever, but some others were better at certain things.  Overall, it is the best with him, though- hands down.

     
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    bellenga    July 31, 2010   Georgia

    First of all I'm an encore bride so he is obviously not my first.

    Now I have been a bit selective in my lifetime, but can say he's the best!  Definitely not a selfish kind of guy.  ;) 

     
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    spaganya    September 4, 2010   Arlington, VA/wedding in Williamsburg, VA

    lol well to be honest, my best ever was similar to @monitajb experience - he wasnt a steady or anything but had the maturity of a teenager, so the ONLY reason i kept him around was for booty calls.

    but what i have with FH is wayyy better than that for other reasons :)

     
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    waitingbee    September 4, 2010   California

    I wish my FI was my best, he's good, great at times but not my best. But he definatley makes up for it

     
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    teeleaf22    June 11, 2010   Milford, PA (wedding in Easton, PA)

    I'm with "danadelphia" ......I can't say he is my best.. I had one guy and no one has been able to compare but that was all he and I had in common. With my FI I have soooo much more! I certainly have no complaints with FI and it keeps getting better.

     
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    WhiteRoseRed    September 25, 2010   England

    Wow, I'm clearly the one bumping up the "average partners" numbers! (Although, on that note, I once knew a really lovely guy who'd been seriously messed up by the woman he wanted to marry ditching him so she could find out what sex with other guys was like. I wish I could have told her that I'd slept with those other guys, and they're really not that great!)

    But my fiance was far and away the best, right from the very start, no teaching required ;) 

     
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    fancypants    August 12, 2012   Vermont

    Definitely the best.  I had sex with a handful of people before but when we had sex (the first time and every time after) it was ridiculous.  I thought he was some sexual ninja and always had such wonderful sex but he said it was extra special and different fot him too.  

     
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    Jenn23    April 17, 2010   Philly suburbs

    Definately the best! :)

     

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