(Closed) is your man silent in bed?

posted 7 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: is your SO quiet in bed?
    no way, he's pretty vocal. : (35 votes)
    15 %
    he's somewhere in the middle. : (84 votes)
    35 %
    i know he likes what i'm doing, but it's pretty rare that he's vocal about it. : (99 votes)
    42 %
    he's as quiet as a church mouse. : (19 votes)
    8 %
  • Post # 3
    5985 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: June 2010

    this cracks me up! good post πŸ™‚ I dont like to share intimate information so I will not comment about Darling Husband and I. BUT I understand what you are saying and i agree. too quiet can be awkward but then again too much talking or “vocal affection” can be weird too. lol there needs to be a happy medium! πŸ™‚

    Post # 5
    155 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: February 2013

    SO is a moaner now more than when we first got together. I like sexual noises lol They get me going and ever since I have told him that he is much more vocal.

    Post # 7
    13099 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: July 2010

    Darling Husband is pretty quite like your SO.  He makes enough noises and such that I can tell he’s enjoying it but I am DEFINITELY the vocal one in the sack in our relationship!

    Post # 9
    3222 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: August 2011

    I wish my Fiance would express his enjoyment a little more. We’ve actually talked about it. Because like, when I’m on top, he just kind of looks at me and breathes. I’m like, HELLO! I’m having sex with you!

    But other positions he gets into it πŸ™‚

    TMI! Sorry πŸ™‚

    Post # 10
    355 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    Mine doesn’t make a peep…but even more so, I have to laugh at something that may not be so obvious here…  And please don’t take offense to it!

    kitty + bean and sex.  I just find it humorous I guess because my guy always calls mine kitty and asks if he can play with my bean…  lmao!

    Post # 11
    2091 posts
    Buzzing bee

    He’s only vocal in certain positions – when I’m the one doing the work. Otherwise he’s pretty quiet.

    Post # 12
    1325 posts
    Bumble bee

    My guy is moderately vocal. He was much quieter when we first starting getting together, but now that he is more comfortable, he’s a bit more vocal.

    Nothing loud, just happy guy noises.

    He’s expressed a fear of being that guy. That thrusting sweating graceless guy who goes “HUUUUUUUHHHHH!!!!  *pant pant pant*  GGGHHHUUUUUUUUUHHHH!!!  GUUUUUUUUUH   HUUUUUUHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!” 


    Post # 15
    9029 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2011

    this is an interesting thread.. I’ll b watching the polls

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