Is Your Rehearsal Dinner Dress Supposed To Be a Surprise?

posted 4 years ago in Parties
  • poll: Did you keep your rehearsal dress a secret before the event?
    Yes : (3 votes)
    4 %
    No : (63 votes)
    94 %
    Other? : (1 votes)
    1 %
  • Post # 3
    12262 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: May 2013

    DH didn’t see mine– It was a Banana Republic ivory silk dress with blue flowers!

    Can we see yours? I bet it’s AMAZING!

    Post # 4
    7319 posts
    Busy Beekeeper
    • Wedding: October 2011 - Bed & Breakfast

    My rehearsal dress was the same as my shower dress. I didn’t see a reason to buy 2 new short white dresses.

    Post # 5
    669 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    I’ve worn mine before to an event I went to with FI, so yes, he’s seen it. We also will be spendng most of that day together and leaving for the rehearsal together so yes, he’ll see it. My FI also figured out which dress I bought cause I left the receipt on the table (oops) but he hasn’t seen ME in my wedding dress and that’s what counts.

    Post # 6
    2964 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2014

    I am wearing jeans or a dress I already own for rehearsal.


    Post # 7
    1967 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: September 2013

    My dress won’t be a surprise to fi. 

    Post # 8
    1710 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: May 2013 - Walt Disney World

    I didn’t keep my dress a secret, but I didn’t advertise it either.  It wasn’t white (wanted to reserve that for the actual bridal gown).  We didn’t coordinate our outfits either.  I really don’t think most people care if you coordinate, but to each their own!

    Post # 9
    922 posts
    Busy bee

    I’m not buying a new dress, just wearing something from my wardrobe.

    Post # 13
    1710 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: May 2013 - Walt Disney World

    @toothfairy910:  I love that dress!  The colors are so soft!  Haha, i had to ask DH what he wore to the rehearsal (I knew it was slacks and a polo but didn’t remember what color polo)!  :-p

    Post # 14
    254 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: March 2014

    i had no clue you wore a dress to the rehearsal, I was just planning on jeans


    Post # 15
    45147 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: November 1999

    There are no rules. It doesn’t have to be a dress. It doesn’t have to be white. It doesn’t have to be a surprise.

    Post # 16
    1839 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: May 2013

    no, i dont think most people make a big deal out of the rehearsal dinner

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