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Is your SO the best sex partner you've ever had? Did it take time for things to get good in the bed or was it hot and heavy from the beginning? Sometimes, do you find yourself fantasizing about someone else? Spill it bees!
Well, for me, he's the only partner I've ever had. Nothing felt right before him and I'm really glad I waited. So yes, he is the best I ever had.
I'm in the same boat as SweetRose2011. He's the only partner I've ever had because I waited until it felt right and I felt completely comfortable. So that would make him the best I've ever had.
@CorgiTales: I just think it's funny that the first three responses are for people who have only had their FI as their partner.
@ Corgi I didn't include that option because I don't think that whether SO was the only partner or not had anything to do with whether he/she was good in bed. I mean whether you've been with 1 person or 200, you know whether you enjoy sex with your SO......BUT to appease everyone who might want that option I've added it to the poll.
@tseay: Thanks :) And yes, wether or not he was my only one he is still amazing.
I wouldn't have said so when we first got together, but the sex got hotter as our relationship progressed, and now yes, he's absolutely the best I've ever had.
@tseay: I don't think that it has anything to do with whether your FI is good either, I think it was just pointed out because it said he was the best sex partner you've ever had and we were just saying yes because he's the only partner but there's nobody else for comparison. 
Okay, so I thought I should add another option for those who might feel it started out great, but got progressively worse.
@SweetRose2011: I am in the same boat. FI is my one & only & I am his one & only :-).
he is definitely the best partner I have had and always has been. From the beginning it was wonderful. He is older than previous guys I have slept with so it could be partly because of experience, but I also like to think that it was because we were meant to be :) The only complaint I would have is he is not real good at being spontaneous/romantic about it, sometimes I like my guy to get me in the mood for it, you know, but then again I am not that way either because I am insecure about acting that way. Stupid, I know.
He's my one and only...after six and a half years it just keeps getting better so I'm confident that he's the best out there for me, even though I have no empirical evidence to prove it :)
He's wonderful now, but it was a little slow going at the beginning. I am his one and only, so there was a definite learning curve there, but he's very attentive and eager to please I have no complaints.
He's my one & only! : ) First person I've dated, first person I've kissed, and first person I've had sex with. And it's pretty awesome, as far as I'm concerned.
My FI is definitely the best I've ever had...and he's not the one and only for me. I've had a few partners before him, and let me tell you...you don't realize how bad sex is until you have great sex lol. It's amazing...I finally found someone who isn't all about themselves in bed...we care about each other's pleasure..it makes it so much better.
DH and I were each other's first and only.
Do I wonder what else is out there? Yeah, of course I do. Does it keep me up at night? No.
I think that having that full trust/love makes all the difference for me. We have the best relationship I've ever known, and so I am relaxed with him. He's not some animal in the sack (neither am I), but he knows my body and I know his and it's pretty awesome.
The best sex I had was with someone other than DH. That was also the worst relationship I had.
DH is no slump, though ;D
Yes he is the best sex partner I've ever had seeing how we were both each others first. I've had other sexual experiences that haven't include intercourse before him and he is a lot better. I wouldn't have it any other way and I love it everytime now if only I could get it more often lol.
I'll be honest, I have only had 2 partners & of the two my current spouse is better.
However I think our sex was better when we were younger -- but that comes with the territory of adult life (stress, fluctuating libidos & being together for over 6 years).
My SO is definitely the best I've ever had. We have such a strong connection and similar styles/needs in the bedroom; and of course I find him endlessly sexy
FI is the best : ) But he's not my only. He takes care of me and doesn't just worry all about himself, which is wonderful, and it makes things that much better. We're also on the same page. We know what the other likes and how to use that to make it fantastic.
@KristenGotMarried: I agree, and yes my SO is the best. My ex, my only previous sexual partner was my first and he was lousy in comparison.
I don't think he knew what a clitoris was :-/
Yes, we are very in tune with each other, something I couldn't honestly say until I met him.
It took some time to really get used to each other, but yes, without a doubt it's the best now. :) Makes me look back at all the others and think wow, I was totally deluded as to what amazing sex was back then!
One of my ex's was better than FI. I don't know what he did but it worked! He was really only a fling, though, so the emotional part wasn't there. FI is definitely a close second. lol
I was his one and only when we were together the first time lol. We dated for 6 years broke up for 2 and a half and both the first time around and this time he is still the best i have had. he feels the same about me as well :) I will say though that in the beginning it took a bit of time for him to figure me out but it was never horrible at any point.
@spaneshal: This! Waaaaay too many guys act like the clitoris is a hugely complicated mystery. I feel like it deserves its own chapter in the Sex Ed books, haha!
Considering the comfort, trust and love between SO and I...yes, yes, a thousand times yes.
However, I did have an ex a few years ago that was an amazing partner (physically). I guess we just had a lot of chemistry. But he was a terribly emotionally abusive person and I'm so glad he's out of my life.
Reading about all these one and only's makes me feel kinda slutty lol
My FI is not the best, but he's the only one who I have ever orgasmed with, and he's definitely the only one I ever fully trusted and felt 100% comfortable with. But Ive still had a few mind blowing encounters prior to FI and I meeting.
Not the best...but my best was always my WORST relationship and I wouldn't go back to him if hell froze over and pigs flew.
Hey DH aint too shabby though;) I'm a happy lady.
We are each other's one and only. I waited until I found the right person. It was always good even the first time. I can't imagine being with someone else.
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