(Closed) Issue with a friend… again– long vent

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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762 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

I think you should say a combination of the two. Like,I really thought I was keeping everyone in the loop but if you want to do something, here’s what’s left to do… And if you have any ideas please share them.

Maybe you could still incorporate some of her ideas or she could help by picking up food the day of, decorating, etc. She sounds really sensitive so she may need someone to ask her 15 times what she wants to do. Annoying.

Good Luck!

Post # 4
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1418 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

I agree with future mrs kirsch.  She wants to be included but yet doesn’t do anything when asked.  I hate friends who put you in that position!  I wouldn’t change any of your plans, but if there is anything last minute or day-of that needs to be done, perhaps suggest that she do that.

I don’t think this is worth losing your friend over…hopefully you two can talk and explain what each of you feels and then move past it.  With your wedding coming up as well, I wouldn’t put the friendship in jeopardy unless it was the very last option!  Sometimes the people we love are the people who make us the craziest!  And with your wedding taking up your time in addition to your MOH duties for this wedding, crazy is where you are at!  Even though I can definitely sympathize with you trying to include everyone and be open to ideas (I am like that too!), she is still your friend and obviously a good one as she is a BM for you!  Best of luck to you!  I hope things work out between you two!

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