- 5 years ago
- Wedding: June 2013
Is anyone else out there having issues with his bachelor party? I dont’ know what’s going on with me..
He’s doing it over two nights (Friday and Saturday), and is planning on going to a casino (spending money we don’t have) and then to a strip club for night one. Now, I’m not typically the jealous type. I’ve been to strip clubs myself, and with my ex’s. They never bothered me. But that was when I lived in a different state, and I have no idea what the strip clubs are like around here… except that they’re topless. This is REALLY bothering me. I’ve told him before – more than once – that I would like to check them out around here, but we’ve never gone. And now that he plans to go without me to ones that I’ve never been to is really making me insecure. I have no idea what goes on in the strip clubs around here, and I HATE the idea of having some 18 year-old bare boobs on his body. I don’t understand what my problem is, other than not having experienced the clubs here myself. And I don’t know how he’s going to act in a situation like that. UGH! I just hate that this is making me so angry.
On top of all of this, we work opposite schedules.. I see him only on Friday night, Saturday and Sunday’s. That’s it. And he’s using two of those days to have a stupid party (I think these things are rather unnecessary), and then that Sunday he’s going to be worthless – so it’s pretty much like I won’t see him all weekend. Which equates to me not seeing him for two weeks. Awesome. I’m annoyed by his lack of caring to spend what little time with me (come on dude, I see you 8 full days out of every month!), and his nonchalant attitude toward my insecurities about the strip club. He avoids talking to me about the subject, which only makes it worse. Way worse. And it doesn’t help that he totally tried to hide his bach party plans from me completely at first.
Am I being crazy for how I feel? I just can’t understand this right now.