(Closed) It hit me bad this morning…

posted 7 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

**HUGS**

I don’t know what that is like, and I’m so sorry you do. 

Post # 4
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: January 1999

Thanks for sharing your dream with us. What a lovely message you were sent last night.  He will always be with you!  Hugs! 

Post # 6
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2009

awww (((HUGS))) I can’t imagine what you are going through, but at least your dad is watching over you and is proud of you 🙂 

Post # 7
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2011

*cue tears* I’m so sorry. I can’t say I know what you’re going through, because I dont, but your dad will be with you in spirit on your wedding day. 

Are you planning on doing anything to honor him on the big day?

Post # 9
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2010

@Miss Tattoo: my husband’s mother died 11 years ago. We left the closest ceremony seat to us empty for her with a photo of her holding him as a baby resting on it. I set my bouquet on the chair as my way of gifting and honoring her. Maybe something more visible like that would feel good?

Hugs!

Post # 10
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

@Miss Tattoo:  I’m so sorry.  I can’t imagine how rough this must be for you.

I have to say, though, that your dream is beautiful.  I can understand why it affected you so much.  Reading your description made me think “wow…her dad sent her a message last night.”  I think that’s how you should think about it.  He really is watching you and is proud.

Post # 11
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

I believe he is always with you in spirit, but chooses to reveal himself to you sometimes. Last night was one of those times. 

Look at this dream as a gift. He told you he approves of your choice in men, he’s proud of you and he’s watching your daughter grow.  He walked with you as far as he could in your adult life, but your inner child can always run back to him and feel his arms around you.  And he knows you have a good man to hold you and take care of you.

What a fantastic gift from him… You have every right to feel sad and to cry, but I don’t think that’s what he wanted…

Hugs

Post # 12
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I think he was telling you through that dream that he will be walking you down the aisle in spirit right beside you. I do truly believe that when loved ones pass away they can come to us in dreams and communicate to us so this is truly special!

Post # 13
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

You know I’m always here if you need me. You know he is proud of you and the amazing job you have been doing the past 4yrs with the little one. Hold that head up high as you always do and remember he loves you forever. 

Post # 14
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

sadly, I know EXACTLY what that’s like. My dad was always great with advice, so when I’m going through a tough time and could really use some “fatherly guidance”, that’s when I usually have those types of dreams. I’ve literally felt the same “Oh, I should give him a call right now!” after waking up, then realizing I can’t. It is a bummer. Might sound crazy, but when I’m home alone, I actually talk to my dad like he’s there (am I crazy or do any of you other ladies do that when you miss a loved one?).

Sorry it happened to you again. It just helps to remember the good times. I almost cherish those dreams, b/c it literally is the only time I get to “interact” with him again.

Post # 15
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

I’m so sorry for your loss.  I’m sure that you will think of the perfect way to honor your father on your wedding day.

Post # 16
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Busy bee

He won’t be walking you, but hes still watching you from back there..*hugs*

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